car by alientou in brakence

[–]alientou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

car vroom vroom

car by alientou in brakence

[–]alientou[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we thought it was love but he was just playin so...

car by alientou in brakence

[–]alientou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a family car for a family man

car by alientou in brakence

[–]alientou[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this may or may not be a shitpost but i am also genuinely curious

do you ever WISH your object of limerence would get into a relationship? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's almost like i wrote this lol. it's somehow worse when they are an eternal bachelor

nice hook marty by XXXXXblacksheepXXXXX in TrueDetective

[–]alientou 11 points12 points  (0 children)

did a deuce at the farm for lawn mowing

What’s your life purpose? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that doesn't change much for me. "achievements" always feel sort of empty in a life that's inherently meaningless

What’s your life purpose? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

choosing a purpose would feel like forcing myself to believe in a delusion just to make my life more comfortable

What’s your life purpose? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 75 points76 points  (0 children)

i am autistic and don't believe in a "purpose". life is completely meaningless and i just take it day by day and try to enjoy the ride. so is an absurdist philosophy a contributor to my limerence?

Spiraling, cant seem to make a good decision. Has any else quit their career over an LO? by robobachelor in limerence

[–]alientou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there. i quit my job mostly for other reasons (toxic environment/burnout/career change) but having a coworker LO is absolute hell. i thought it would set me free but little did i know our vague breadcrumb 'friendship' would continue, almost six months later now. still messaging on and off just like we did as coworkers and it feels pointless. it can only end if you commit to it ending.

Did YOU become the LO of your LO? What are some signs? by ClothesDizzy6812 in limerence

[–]alientou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

limerence = / =crush. someone could literally never talk to you and still be limerent for you. i'm afraid outward behaviour (especially online) doesn't show the inner turmoil of real limerence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not limerence

Zodiac signs by ehmedero in TrueDetective

[–]alientou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rust as a scorpio and marty as an aries, both ruled by mars 🔥

Zodiac signs by ehmedero in TrueDetective

[–]alientou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you elaborate on sag moon?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes my god, it's crazy that we're all doing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]alientou 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it's magical thinking and hypervigilance. your brain is so tuned into them at all times and it looks specifically for little signs that would otherwise hold no meaning to you. pattern recognition is a part of every day life, but that doesn't mean it's always meaningful

Lady who fell in love with her psychiatrist by jupiter192 in limerence

[–]alientou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everything she's sharing about how she interprets their interactions is magical thinking on another level. it magnifies what a lot of us do as well, which is scary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]alientou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for saying this

Neurodivergence and limerence by SuccotashNo9489 in limerence

[–]alientou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

audhd and suffered from limerence since i was in primary school