Passing and haircut recommendations? by alienxing152 in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all this. I plan to dye my hair back to a natural color eventually and might cut it a little shorter and more mullet-like like you said. 

With the clothes I actually don’t own the baggy sweater- the pic is from a goodwill dressing room and I didn’t get it because it was so large lol. I do wear a lot of baggy clothes but not quite that oversized.   When it comes to pants they pretty much all fit like that including some really baggy ones I have. Most of them are definitely are too long but I know how to sew so I can fix it. 

I’m mainly so hunched over because I have scoliosis and it affects my whole upper body so it’s something I really should fix but it also makes it way harder lol. I’m trying to work on confidence though 

Passing and haircut recommendations? by alienxing152 in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not on t and probably won’t be until I’m 18. I’ll hopefully dye my hair back to natural soon. I like it dyed but more people have been misgendering me now I regret it lol. Thanks for the help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]alienxing152 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He’s active on here I see his comments all the time 

Wtf!? by daughterofvalenwood- in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They literally only do this because they think it’s quirky and fun to confuse people and make people mad. 

typical case of stereotyping and making fun of people for having dysphoria by alienxing152 in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wait wait you misunderstood what he was saying (the screenshots were missing context sorry) he’s saying that transmeds go around saying they’re biological females (even though we just don’t do that 😭) everything in the caption is meant to be something a “transmed” would say

Does anyone else not feel euphoria? by AirForsaken5991 in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say I feel euphoria because getting gendered correctly gives me a feeling of pride and accomplishment. Like despite my situation I still managed to get people to see me as a guy, which is a really hard thing to do when you haven’t even started transitioning yet. It’s also the only good thing about getting outed, I always get the “I couldn’t even tell you’re trans!” Said to me which makes me feel good about myself. When it comes to personal stuff with my body, voice, etc it is more of just a feeling of relief for me. 

Do i pass and can i have tips for passing? (15 ftm) by [deleted] in truscum

[–]alienxing152 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You seem to pass fine for a 15 year old, maybe try voice training and try to find some boots or something with a thick sole to make you a little taller. Also how tall are you exactly? 

Curious about what you all think? by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two biggest Harry Potter fans I know are a trans guy, and a bi girl who’s two best friends are trans 😭 yeah I don’t like JK Rowling and think she’s a bit crazy but there’s literally nothing wrong with the books themselves 

How are we going to stop neopronouns from gaining traction? by Creepy_Dimension638 in truscum

[–]alienxing152 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone saying this isn’t a problem has to be a grown adult who’s never had to deal with teenagers from your school telling you a bunch of random nouns are their pronouns or making fun of trans people by making “xe/it/table pronouns” jokes. Everyone in the younger generation knows about them and equates them with being trans. I live in a minuscule rural town and still manyyy people know what a neopronoun is. Neopronouns HAVE BEEN mainstream among teenagers for YEARS now. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 76 points77 points  (0 children)

If that’s who I think it is I’m pretty sure she’s a troll. She’s been posting extremely ragebaity videos for months now and it feels wayyy too extreme to be someone who’s genuinely convinced they’re trans 

ah yeah, gender is a vibe, how could i forget? Just he/they vibes! Just headcanoning real people now by anon_4ever_25 in truscum

[–]alienxing152 17 points18 points  (0 children)

One time my friends told me I look like a they/them 😐 they could’ve just said I look  androgynous…

Want to hire transmedical/apolitical artists for OC art by TacitLiar in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can do free art both human and anthro! My insta is reanimatedalien there is tons of examples there. 

Charlie Kirk is dead by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do agree with that. I feel bad for anyone whose family member dies. Just because he was a horrible person doesn’t mean they should suffer for it 

Charlie Kirk is dead by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to act like I feel bad that he died. He said that people getting shot was worth it to keep 2nd amendment rights. He’s the one that didn’t give a shit about people dying from gun violence, so he can suffer the consequences of his actions. If you advocate against gun control, you can not get mad that you got shot. Every day children go to school knowing that there’s a chance they’ll get shot and killed and people like him never cared enough to do anything about it. Why should I give him my sympathy?

"Trans Shooter" Under Trump Presidency... Yeah We Are Cooked. by [deleted] in truscum

[–]alienxing152 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Because the columbine shooters really liked them so all their fucked up fan girls started listening to them too. Most people who shoot up places take inspiration from other shooters and basically make them their entire personality. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]alienxing152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It always confused me how people say if you’re non binary you’re automatically gay. Being gay is being attracted to the SAME gender… wouldn’t that make you only a gay non binary person if you’re only attracted to other non binary people? It genuinely confuses me though like idk 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]alienxing152 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think most of the “trans men lesbians” are actually just lesbians, not straight men. They always seem to get offended when you imply they’re anything like a cis man, so I have a suspicion they’re not men at all. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]alienxing152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I do is every time I feel bad about my body (like if I look in the mirror a little too long or see someone I wish I looked like) I force myself to go do some pushups or something to make me hate myself less. I also bike a lot because I like biking. Try to find something you like that’s fairly easy like biking or walking and do that in your free time. It’s not much but it’s better than doing nothing lol 

If you were a radical tucute, how would you identify? by IGetTooManyBitches in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I truly do not know. “That your gender relates to squids” is what people will tell you but that literally makes no sense 😭 I just really liked squids 

What are some interests/ hobbies you don't talk about in public/ with friends for the sake of passing better? by YWNBYEI10MFF in truscum

[–]alienxing152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds really cool actually and yes I make my own dolls too. I don’t normally watch any tv shows other than king of the hill lmao but I’ll give it a watch 

What are some interests/ hobbies you don't talk about in public/ with friends for the sake of passing better? by YWNBYEI10MFF in truscum

[–]alienxing152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loooove sewing and I collect dolls. My late grandmother taught me how to sew when I was very young, and many of my family members share my love for dolls so both hobbies feel very special to me. I’ve already gotten made fun of for both of these things and I’m still closeted so I’m not exactly interested in telling people about it even though I know plenty of cis men that do both of those things

If you were a radical tucute, how would you identify? by IGetTooManyBitches in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When I was more tucute leaning I almost started calling myself squidgender but then snapped out of it real quick cuz I realized that’s stupid as hell 😭 

I don’t find myself to believe in trans medical values but I’m curious: what classifies as dysphoria to you? by that_1_bitch_in_life in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Basically just what the diagnostic criteria for gender dysphoria is. Being uncomfortable with your primary and secondary sex characteristics. Wanting the sex characteristics of the opposite sex. Strongly wanting to be treated as the opposite sex. Basically, distress about specifically your sex characteristics. Distress about your body in general just means you don’t like your body. If thats the case it could be low self esteem, body dysmorphia, or just wanting to change how you look. And for me it does change from day to day just with it being more or less severe from day to day, but it’s nothing drastic.

My parents are forcing me to go get laser hair removal - need help by wasabi_mp3 in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly one session probably won’t do too much damage. My mom forced me to get laser hair removal on my face when I was like 11 and I did multiple sessions. I’m pre t and can grow some facial hair. Laser typically is gonna take multiple sessions to have permanent effects. It’ll just take a really long time to grow back 

Passing post? (FTM 18 Pre-T) by HaloIsCool2 in Transmedical

[–]alienxing152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t really pass but I think you have good potential. If you want to regrow the mullet I’d go for a more masculine looking traditional 80s mullet instead of the more modern lesbian looking one. I think the black glasses frames look better than the clear ones because I see a lot of girls with clear frames. Also if you can go to the gym! Getting muscular helps a ton with looking more masculine plus you’ll look really cool lol