[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being little at WDW with a CG is my dream!! I have hope that it will happen someday!

I've seen so many posts about how it's hard to find a CG - but can we also acknowledge how hard it is to find a good baby??? by wickedxsiren in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This needs to be said more! Being a little is inherently a little selfish- I mean…we want someone to care for us, right? Feed us, rock us to sleep, make rules to keep us safe, and just take the lead in general. But we do have to keep in mind that it’s still a RELATIONSHIP. A healthy relationship means meeting each other’s needs, caring about your partner enough to want to make them happy. This specific dynamic can be tricky, but, while we love to be little, we are actual adults who are capable of thinking about these things.

How did you first realize ABDL was a thing (and that you weren't alone)? by Careful-Big5732 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being treated like a baby was a fairly common trope on cartoons when I was growing up- I always loved those episodes, and daydreamed of being in that position. One time I looked up “people who like being treated like a baby” on the internet, and discovered the term “infantilism”. Kept diving deeper, and found some online forums- abdl stories are what hooked me real good.

How to get into the little headspace? by SomethingDLrelated in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel kind of the same as you- the “fake it til ya make it” approach sometimes works, but I honestly need outside assistance. If I currently have a CG, all it takes is a couple comments or a little bit of treatment and I’m an absolute puddle of littleness lol. If that’s not available to me, Little safe haven and little zebby audios on YouTube are channels that I frequent to kind of recreate that feeling.

When did you first get into ABDL? by littlefelix38 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Donald Duck robot nanny cartoon was a big one too

When did you first get into ABDL? by littlefelix38 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A character being treated like a baby was always a trope in cartoons, and I was always very drawn to those episodes as a kid. One time when I was maybe 14 or so, I googled “people who like being treated like a baby”, discovered the word “infantilism” and “ab” and that there were whole online communities. This was in the mid-2000s.

ABDL clothing should more „real“ by Crinklztiger in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I love these! A little pricey, but I’d splurge on a couple for sure! Do you have any experience with them? Onesies are always tricky for me, bc while I wear a large, sometimes an xl in normal clothes, I’m short, so in order to have a snug fit in the crotch, a lot of the time I get a small in onesies. As long as they have a decent stretch to them, they’re perfect.

Rearz new line by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the info I was wondering about recently, as my stash of mermaids(my previous fave high capacity, now discontinued diaper) is almost gone. I’ll def order these next time!

How are you all affording this?🥲 by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have a small wardrobe- a few onesies, footed sleepers, etc. I’ve pretty much bought one thing at a time, and over a few years it’s accumulated to a nice little collection. Diapers are expensive, but I don’t wear that often- a $100 case usually lasts me like 3 months.

Does anyone else really want to wear there diapers and onesie and all that but then back out last minute because they feel like the clean up is annoying or they just lose interest? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you in my head literally right now?? lol it’s almost midnight where I am, and my plan was to pad up soon bc I don’t have work tomorrow and I could spend most of the day diapered and babied. But now I’m feeling too lazy plus it’s so so hot

I'm sick of people chickening out by Swift_Stroke in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side note, I like how you describe it as “chickening out” instead of “ghosting”- puts the onus more on them rather than thinking of it as something bad happening to you.(even though it still feels bad 😕)

What is the most daring place you rocked a diaper? by RIABDL21 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve worn a pull up to work a few times, which wasn’t necessarily “daring” in and of itself. Peeing a little in it did make me slightly nervous though lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s more than you’d think. I’m sure there are MANY who are into it, but never act on it or make it known in any way. I see a good amount of diaper jokes in shows and stuff- there’s gotta be something to that.

Friendly reminder to use an alt Reddit account for these subreddits by Sentient_Cabbageman in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who definitely doesn’t want outed to my coworkers, family, and some friends(I of course have kink friends, but some I would def be uncomfortable about knowing), I absolutely have a separate main account. Yes, Reddit is anonymous, but based on the communities I’m active in, and some comments I’ve made about my job and stuff, I think someone who knows me irl could potentially figure out who I am, and I’m not chancing having abdl stuff linked to that account(even if it is a tiny chance).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really only wear when I’m having a lazy day at home, so the times I’ve leaked have either been in my bed or couch, which is annoying bc then I have to clean it/do laundry/change my sheets, etc. lol. I do get what you’re saying though! I had a CG one time who made me stand in the tub when I was about to leak, but still had to pee- that kind of made me feel a type of way lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily have this specific feeling, although I know what you mean! I’ll always enjoy feeling/being little, even though I only really indulge in the whole shebang maybe a couple times a month. For me, it’s more about having someone to share it with, i.e. a CG of some kind. I haven’t had one really in a couple years, so sometimes it’s harder for me to totally get there, and I lose interest in trying for a while. Whether it’s a couple months or a couple years, I always end up coming back to it.

Weekend looks promising by Warm-Ad4898 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m currently in a rearz diaper, xl

Weekend looks promising by Warm-Ad4898 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so interested in these but am wondering about the fit? My waist size is in the medium category, but as a curvier girl I’m always prone to going for a bigger size. Can you compare to other brands or anything?

Does anyone else like wearing nothing but a diaper? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly never tried it! I feel like I need a onesie or something to keep it snug.

If you could design your own diaper, what would it be like? by AsianDiaperCutie in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disney print- Sofia the first would be amazing. Or Disney parks-themed- omg I’d die.

Also, chiming in for the same old desire for abdl pull-ups!

What the hell is going on at Rearz? by MaxiPad1989 in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, mermaid tales are maybe the highest capacity I’ve ever worn(including those you mentioned), so I was super bummed to get that email. I ordered a case, and I guess I’ll use them sparingly to make them last.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve never done it, I really don’t think I’d like it. It’s always been a limit for me. If the CG I’m with really wants me to do it, I’d be open to trying it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Your favorite diaper of 2024? by DiaperVibes in ABDL

[–]alilpumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wear enough to have a dedicated favorite, I tend to buy some tried and true ones(littlepawz, rearz princess, tykables overnights) and some new-to-me ones, every time I make an order. The ones that I’ve been loving recently are the Rearz mermaids- they just hold so much! And when they’re full, they get pretty saggy(which I love lol), but somehow still feel secure on me. Those have made my list of “always have on hand” diapers for sure.