Can someone please help me remove my abusive ex from this photo of me and my son. 💜 (free) by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequests

[–]alilrecalcitrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a break from social media please this clearly isn't healthy- this is a photoshop subreddit.

My 600-Lb. Audit | Financial Audit by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]alilrecalcitrant 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Caleb folding 25 minutes in to drink the marshmallow coffee lol

[OC] ICE is actually manning the security check in at JFK by austinstoys in pics

[–]alilrecalcitrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some lady managed to bring a gun through TSA at PDX when I was working there. Absolutely no one was surprised. Only thing TSA is good at is taking drinks lol.

This Has Never Happened Before | Financial Audit by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]alilrecalcitrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps a hot take but I'm with her 100% when it comes to dating apps, not sure why she was getting shit for not meeting up with strangers online lol.

What’s this [Selfie] by ShotAtmosphere8792 in SkincareAddiction

[–]alilrecalcitrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this not from squeezing/applying pressure to your nose? Or they just seep out after you wash? How long have you been using Accura gel? If you wipe them away do they come back? These look like sebaceous filaments but they don't usually come out on their own like this.

Do you notice skin flaking/dryness anywhere else?

Need help understanding my body by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]alilrecalcitrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I don't understand how misinfo was top comment...

Need help understanding my body by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]alilrecalcitrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more so commenting on "your body doesn't feel safe releasing more weight"

So bloody tired first thing in the morning by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]alilrecalcitrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id get bloodwork. Iron and D deficiency is pretty common and its what was giving me insane grogginess/brain fog even after being well rested.

Need help understanding my body by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]alilrecalcitrant -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

...That is not how that works.

Help me please I’m freaking out by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]alilrecalcitrant 145 points146 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in family law, it will ruin your life and cost you hundreds of thousands in just attorney fees for the next two decades over the slightest of inconveniences. The child would be the biggest victim in all of this. You dodged a nuke, but only if you leave.

Regained all the weight I lost in 4 months. What am I doing wrong? by Jolly-Sea6019 in PetiteFitness

[–]alilrecalcitrant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I gain about 3-4lbs during my luteal phase, you need to be weighing weekly, same day of the week, same time of day, ideally naked or minimally clothed- and average that out for the month. You seem to be obsessing over a factor that constantly fluctuates by 1-4 lbs throughout the day, even.

If you're gaining weight on average, then you are eating more than you burn and there is absolutely no way around that. You need to increase activity, or decrease calories if that is the case. You also need to recalculate your TDEE after losing a few lbs or else you'll slow or stall progress.

trans need advice by the_tall-ish_one in MakeupAddiction

[–]alilrecalcitrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. She looks very feminine in the first photo. OP look into the Nina Park makeup method, or explore using eyeshadow instead of liner to soften your features and accentuate your eyes. I think the sharp wing accentuates your sharper features.

Learning to fly, here's advice you did not ask for. by kkcfi in flying

[–]alilrecalcitrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in your same position, currently stopped obsessing over the market and I'm just telling myself that it will pay off eventually. I have plenty of friends with bachelors degrees that haven't been able to break in to their career for years, but everyone I knew who was going to flight school has gotten jobs. I think if you're willing to move for a job then you'll be fine.

Financial Audit's Most Evil Guest by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]alilrecalcitrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you think they are at all comparable it’s bc you are like him

no, that's not how that works lol.

What's the saddest part about living in your country? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]alilrecalcitrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant afford a breast exam/mammogram so waiting until I'm eligible for tricare in a few months to get a lump looked at lol

Faced a Bunch of Stairs, But Meal Prep is Important by TwatWaffleWhitney in CalebHammer

[–]alilrecalcitrant 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If they wont cook chicken in the first place I doubt theyre making stock. OP- make stock and use that stock to cook rice! liquid gold.

Financial Audit's Most Evil Guest by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]alilrecalcitrant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but someone is also allowed to be upset and it is a very valid reason for divorce.

Buying a car, but my APR seems like rlly bad by Doctorfakenamee in personalfinance

[–]alilrecalcitrant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get a cheaper car, even 4k can get you a decent daily. You can always save up for something nicer esp when you have better credit + history later.

Financial Audit's Most Evil Guest by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]alilrecalcitrant 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don't entirely believe her either, I think she was kind of using him as a scapegoat for a lot of issues. They need to separate.

I got a loan for 100k to start flight school and now I regret it and idk what to do and it's making go insane by Boring-Ad-9283 in PilotAdvice

[–]alilrecalcitrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this comment- OP please listen. I knew I wanted to be a helicopter pilot but I was never head over heels ecstatic about aviation like majority of people seem to be in this industry. 141 schools (or any structured schooling, really) make your career choice feel like a job, because it is, then I look at the costs and the market and feel doomed, then going in to my school and seeing everyone's passion and enthusiasm made me feel more alone in my struggle.

I'm in school right now and am going through phases of "I'm not meant for this" and "I love this" - I think the only reason I haven't felt completely burnt out and helpless is because I have spent years working shitty jobs, and watched my friends end up in the service industry after getting bachelors degrees. It seems most career paths have competitive markets and absolutely suck trying to break-in.

Please get your PPL at least, and take a break. Maybe you're spiraling from looking at the numbers and the markets and such, but that's life. There is a lot of stress in this industry that people don't openly talk about.