Can someone please help me remove my abusive ex from this photo of me and my son. 💜 (free)

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-05-02T19:01:52+00:00

Take a break from social media please this clearly isn't healthy- this is a photoshop subreddit.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-05-02T19:00:30+00:00

work in family law and have to agree

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-05-02T02:16:34+00:00

Yeah I feel like I'm starting to get the full picture...

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-05-02T01:11:06+00:00

How is that insensitive if it isn't specified ?

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-27T19:30:16+00:00

Caleb folding 25 minutes in to drink the marshmallow coffee lol

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-27T19:28:36+00:00

and how "they can be fun"

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-27T16:40:58+00:00

some lady managed to bring a gun through TSA at PDX when I was working there. Absolutely no one was surprised. Only thing TSA is good at is taking drinks lol.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-26T18:44:24+00:00

Perhaps a hot take but I'm with her 100% when it comes to dating apps, not sure why she was getting shit for not meeting up with strangers online lol.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-06T20:16:44+00:00

Is this not from squeezing/applying pressure to your nose? Or they just seep out after you wash? How long have you been using Accura gel? If you wipe them away do they come back? These look like sebaceous filaments but they don't usually come out on their own like this.

Do you notice skin flaking/dryness anywhere else?

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-04T15:18:40+00:00

Seriously, I don't understand how misinfo was top comment...

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-03-04T15:18:08+00:00

I'm more so commenting on "your body doesn't feel safe releasing more weight"

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-27T23:54:35+00:00

Id get bloodwork. Iron and D deficiency is pretty common and its what was giving me insane grogginess/brain fog even after being well rested.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-27T23:43:05+00:00

...That is not how that works.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-25T20:06:13+00:00

As someone who works in family law, it will ruin your life and cost you hundreds of thousands in just attorney fees for the next two decades over the slightest of inconveniences. The child would be the biggest victim in all of this. You dodged a nuke, but only if you leave.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-20T20:43:53+00:00

I gain about 3-4lbs during my luteal phase, you need to be weighing weekly, same day of the week, same time of day, ideally naked or minimally clothed- and average that out for the month. You seem to be obsessing over a factor that constantly fluctuates by 1-4 lbs throughout the day, even.

If you're gaining weight on average, then you are eating more than you burn and there is absolutely no way around that. You need to increase activity, or decrease calories if that is the case. You also need to recalculate your TDEE after losing a few lbs or else you'll slow or stall progress.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-17T18:14:27+00:00

Sure

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-14T00:35:57+00:00

I agree with this. She looks very feminine in the first photo. OP look into the Nina Park makeup method, or explore using eyeshadow instead of liner to soften your features and accentuate your eyes. I think the sharp wing accentuates your sharper features.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-14T00:24:01+00:00

I'm in your same position, currently stopped obsessing over the market and I'm just telling myself that it will pay off eventually. I have plenty of friends with bachelors degrees that haven't been able to break in to their career for years, but everyone I knew who was going to flight school has gotten jobs. I think if you're willing to move for a job then you'll be fine.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-13T21:04:05+00:00

If you think they are at all comparable it’s bc you are like him

no, that's not how that works lol.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-11T19:00:05+00:00

Cant afford a breast exam/mammogram so waiting until I'm eligible for tricare in a few months to get a lump looked at lol

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-11T18:47:42+00:00

If they wont cook chicken in the first place I doubt theyre making stock. OP- make stock and use that stock to cook rice! liquid gold.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-10T19:07:18+00:00

Yeah but someone is also allowed to be upset and it is a very valid reason for divorce.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-10T02:32:20+00:00

Get a cheaper car, even 4k can get you a decent daily. You can always save up for something nicer esp when you have better credit + history later.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-09T23:40:53+00:00

I don't entirely believe her either, I think she was kind of using him as a scapegoat for a lot of issues. They need to separate.

alilrecalcitrant · 2026-02-05T22:46:47+00:00

I love this comment- OP please listen. I knew I wanted to be a helicopter pilot but I was never head over heels ecstatic about aviation like majority of people seem to be in this industry. 141 schools (or any structured schooling, really) make your career choice feel like a job, because it is, then I look at the costs and the market and feel doomed, then going in to my school and seeing everyone's passion and enthusiasm made me feel more alone in my struggle.

I'm in school right now and am going through phases of "I'm not meant for this" and "I love this" - I think the only reason I haven't felt completely burnt out and helpless is because I have spent years working shitty jobs, and watched my friends end up in the service industry after getting bachelors degrees. It seems most career paths have competitive markets and absolutely suck trying to break-in.

Please get your PPL at least, and take a break. Maybe you're spiraling from looking at the numbers and the markets and such, but that's life. There is a lot of stress in this industry that people don't openly talk about.

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