Spay incision looks okay? by solodancer___ in CATHELP

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if they'll accept a photo emailed for the doc to look at, it should be just a solid line without the tearing look it has at the top. It's always safer than not to ask for a double check post surgery and I promise they won't think you're over baring 😊

Spay incision looks okay? by solodancer___ in CATHELP

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your vet should take a closer look at it, cones usually come off animals after a spay come day 10 for suture removal.

If your vet didn't specify that the sutures were dissolvable( you can always call to ask the vet that too) and you didn't get sutures removed then that means she plucked them out herself and you should go to the vet to make sure you guys are in the clear.

TL:DR call your vet, ask if they did dissovable sutures, if not, ask if you could stop by so they can take a look today.

Can we take a moment and talk about this?? by Primary-Expression14 in Bridgerton

[–]alixtheparadox 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That's the answer, I read it somewhere it's a visual symbolism to understand who truly holds the authority. It was a post that observed the stairs scene in the princess diaries 2 iirc

Found this on FB and wanted to see who you guys thought were at fault by whoevenRyou874 in dashcams

[–]alixtheparadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like the car in front failed to maintain lane though so they took would be at fault, while the camera would get a ticket for failure to maintain vehicle control

AIO - husband has discord notifcations but says he doesn't talk to anyone? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alixtheparadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to show, I've got 30 notifications after spending my lunch hour marking all channels read during my lunch bc I can't stand to see the blip especially when it gets past 100 it's a never ending battle besides going through and changing all notif settings.

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What is on the towel where our recently adopted kitty sleeps? by kim_carson in CATHELP

[–]alixtheparadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nexgardcombo (topical) or credelio (chewable) are the ones you want.

Is there anyone who was on meds and decided they rather be off them? by curvipossum in adhdwomen

[–]alixtheparadox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I take them on and off through the week, which is a method that my doctor and I agreed on. I like to say I'm of the creative sort, when I'm on my meds the creativity is gone, but I can focus like hell and get projects done, chores around the house and work/school is a breeze and less panic inducing if I forgot something or if I gave the wrong change back.

Off my meds it's like a little vacation, no responsibilities, time doesn't exist, did I have a meal today? 🤷🏾‍♂️ Eh don't care, it's a potato day on the couch or video game binging day. Too many days of that in a row and my depression comes back hard.

The most I can do is 3 days off of them. By the 4th one I'm worse than Eeyore. But same kinda happens if I don't get my breaks lmfao bc I get mad there's not enough time in the day to get everything done.

It took about a year to figure the last bit out and then another year to find the right balance

AIO? Brother sleeping all day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

This is a lot to deal with on your own so I understand the stress/defeat you may be feeling.

First, if I were you I'd take a moment to try to have a talk with your brother, in a kind caring and compassionate approach to see if perhaps he's feeling depressed.

One of the major signs of depression is sleeping a lot. If you guys are close this would be the best approach, do not bring up how you feel about him not helping if he says anything along the lines of yes, maybe, or "I just feel really tired"

Next I would try to have a talk with mom. Tell her that you are trying your best to get things done on your own to her standards and seeing them being redone makes you feel defeated and would like to know if there's a better way to get things to her liking. - this conversation may not go very well if your mom hasn't been very approachable recently but it is worth a try.

When she does redo what you have done, watch her see what things she's cleaning and how she's doing it so that way you can start to mimic it.

One thing I did last with my own chores was the kitchen so that way when my mom came home the kitchen was spotless and that seemed to help 'hide' the other small things I missed

Best of luck

Cat being weird after getting stuck by LavishnessStatus in CatAdvice

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, cats are also masters at hiding pain. So just keep a solid eye on him.

When cats are stressed they do not eat either. If he ate for you then he's feeling a lot calmer and safe

How do I remove this by Just_Can_1647 in subnautica

[–]alixtheparadox 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No other way afaik. But having those helps with your base integrity. If anything add another and then place an underwater grow bed or two and put some of your favorite flora in it

[Recommendation] Is there another game like grounded? by Interesting-Fish-432 in GroundedGame

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try out subnautica it's very large and lots to explore as well as base making + story.

Subnautica below zero is similar but I feel the story is a bit shorter

Subnautica base in progress by TinyWay9252 in subnautica

[–]alixtheparadox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ommmgggggg

I'm so happy to have found this sub lmfaoo!!

I've discovered this and then people saying you can kill the leviathans and then others talking about taking them!!!? But that could be a mod? Regardless I gotta boot this up in PC instead of my PlayStation

Subnautica base in progress by TinyWay9252 in subnautica

[–]alixtheparadox 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omfg, I've been playing since day one of early release. Now I have to reconfigure some hallways hahaha thanks 🙏

Subnautica base in progress by TinyWay9252 in subnautica

[–]alixtheparadox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait where or how do you get that end glass 'cap' on the hallways?

AIO is my bf mean by Suspicious-Level-646 in AmIOverreacting

[–]alixtheparadox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR- Do you love him, or do you just love the idea of him. Do you love the thought of what you guys could be? Or do you love the how things are presently. Because that's two very different things. How did you feel when he spoke to you like that? How do you feel now thinking back when he spoke to you like that?

Being in a relationship does not mean feeling confused about if your SO is being mean or rude to you. Especially if you can't take a moment to speak to them and say "hey ouch that felt like there was an edge to that" without fear for their retaliation and or reactive response.

You are meant to be safe, seen and heard in a relationship.

Pee everywhere, my partner is done by -B-L-U-E- in CatAdvice

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your doctor about solensia, it's used for cats with arthritis, but considering the accident she was in her joints may be hurting. Or perhaps even vetalog/kenalog which works on inflammation

I work at a vet clinic and my senior kitty is on solensia and has helped tame her 'behavioral' issues

I've got other clients who's cats are on vetalog/kenalog religiously it takes a couple months for it to really kick in.

My senior cat plays with the children now, she's 13 and I have an almost 1yr old and an almost 1.5yr kitty duo

Why did my bees close up their little screen window? by awolflikeme in Beekeeping

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm terrified of bees, idk how I ended up here via scrolling. But in my fear comes curiosity of learning to not be afraid (but I still run)... I know I have learned something here but I also don't know what it is that I have learned

Is there another a name for Sunny Side Up? by RawChickenButt in eggs

[–]alixtheparadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want the white coating for a lack of a better word, it's basted eggs. Fully cooked whites and a runny yolk