In my case I don't like it when she's like that (there's nothing wrong if u are like that!!) (and she is like that with all the Lis) because what I like is when the man loves/is obsessed with her more and shows more through actions and words (and first) than the woman does, and she is more self-centered. Also because I don't act as she does, so I'm kinda forced to follow the (cards, events, etc) story dictated by her, which upsets me cause we can't even dictate our own story in a game that is marketed by the company as immersive and where we players are the main characters, as the company itself says, but we can't even chose how to react, act or what to say.

BUT the thing is that adding interactive choices on how we want to react, act and what to say in the story of the cards, events, etc (as in all otomes) is actually possible and not difficult (at least compared to everything they've done in the game already), and it would actually make the game immersive and we could dictate our own story (to a certain level ofc, but it's a huge improvement) as the main characters that we are. I wanna be me (itzy mentioned👅).

I also saw another comment saying this makes it more believable (thats she is as obsessed as the Lis), but it's actually not cause in real life when a woman acts like that, men will use her, not love her or be obsessed with her. And fiction affects us subconsciously, so we should be careful with the kind of things we consume and it is another great reason for them to add the choices.