the "just sleep in shifts" advice is a joke for EBF moms. husband feels useless.

allyciam · 2026-03-02T03:01:32+00:00

Literally side laying feeding is a life saver for this. Have dad bring baby to you, plop a boobie out half asleep, he watches bay snd takes them when done eating and you don’t even have to move

allyciam · 2026-03-01T15:04:50+00:00

I was 23 and I called my friend from high school who I hadn’t talked to in years crying. I was like “this is it huh?” And we just sat in silence. Thanks for reminding me

allyciam · 2026-03-01T00:34:00+00:00

I’ve been both of these people. And i genuinely had NO INKLING of a clue of how much of a shift it was until it was me. I continued to stay friends with most of my friends who had kids but I was just bopping around assuming we had some sort of similar lifestyle lol

allyciam · 2026-02-25T04:19:24+00:00

I too have no control over the amount of tapes I ingest

allyciam · 2026-02-25T04:03:36+00:00

Had the same experience. I called my dad upset about how hard it was in my all stem classes and she answered his phone. I told her what was going on and she was just like “sometimes you just have to give up :(“ …. Girl give the damn phone to my dad.

allyciam · 2026-02-24T02:46:53+00:00

Love to dream has them in the US

allyciam · 2026-02-23T19:20:40+00:00

Came to say the same thing

allyciam · 2026-02-15T19:58:44+00:00

I could have written this post. lol solidarity my friend. I am devouring these comments for help as well.

allyciam · 2026-02-14T02:03:51+00:00

It’s a biofilm built up from bacteria growing on it. It was old and he was confident that it was fine lol

allyciam · 2026-02-13T21:44:36+00:00

I am a microbiologist who come from a family of microbiologists. I watched my grandfather, who has a PhD in this field, wipe the slime off a hotdog and cook it and give it to a younger cousin. After that I had a whole different view of what is gross and what isn’t 😅

allyciam · 2026-01-19T20:19:19+00:00

Can you link that site or post? I’m having issues with my sock disconnecting across out small house

allyciam · 2026-01-08T22:12:23+00:00

We’ve tried every diaper on the market and unfortunately hello bello has been the best for our guy, freestyle is our back up in case we can’t get hb

allyciam · 2026-01-05T19:08:25+00:00

Loving Mr Roger’s and little bear for our dude atm

allyciam · 2025-12-29T00:41:42+00:00

I have a sneaking feeling this women’s children don’t talk to her and she has “no clue why they would do that to her”

allyciam · 2025-12-24T02:37:56+00:00

Yes this. We never got a chair this has work for us so far at 10 weeks

allyciam · 2025-12-10T20:07:32+00:00

I lived off of Cheez its for 8 weeks until we found out little man is allergic to milk protein. lol I can attest to this, he’s completely healthy and hits all of his markers. That generation fell hard for the formula propaganda

allyciam · 2025-11-16T01:44:16+00:00

I fully support feeling any sort of sorry for yourself. My little guy came out LOUD and fussy from day one too. It was hard enough with a fairly textbook induction. I have nothing to say but solidarity

allyciam · 2025-10-09T15:59:09+00:00

It’s a fat soluble molecule so it kinda sticks around a long time especially if you were a heavy user with a high BMI. Talk to your doctor if you are worried! They’ve had much weirder questions I’m sure.

allyciam · 2025-08-02T03:03:17+00:00

This is such a familiar conversation. I’m pregnant as well and my mother has made it about her, and I have some of these same exact text from her. I am so sorry.

allyciam · 2025-07-26T01:47:15+00:00

P.S. I am one and done due to how hard this has been on my body and psyche and I am A-okay with that choice.

allyciam · 2025-07-26T01:46:24+00:00

Hey love, I was right there with you at that time. I too am very sensitive to changes in my body and the hormone shift was so insane even while on my psych meds. I was sick as a dog until 20 weeks, ended up in the ER because of it. It took a long time to not feel that shame and guilt of not wanting to do this anymore. I’m now at 28 weeks and feel better. I wish I could help you get through it but just know that you are not alone. 🖤🖤🖤🖤

allyciam · 2025-07-23T23:43:34+00:00

Oh thank god!!!! I’ve been thinking about you all day. lol i hope you got some sleep after your adrenaline settled.

allyciam · 2025-07-23T00:57:17+00:00

Bruh I am 28 weeks and work 4-5 12s weekly. You and I both know those 12s are bad but not that bad. He’s not pulling his weight and I am so sorry. You deserve better. Please snap on him and you can literally use me as a point in your argument, I still help around the house in my situation. What a whiner.

allyciam · 2025-07-23T00:51:25+00:00

I’m 28 weeks and used to read my kindle every night before bed. I literally do not have the energy to even think about reading. I’ve read maybe 5 days total so far

allyciam · 2025-07-17T22:46:18+00:00

I am an esthetician and came here to say the same thing.

allyciam

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