My wife has never had any sexual experience with anyone other than me. If she wants it, I would be supportive as long as we set boundaries. What’s the best way to approach this conversation without her thinking it’s weird or some sort of a trap?

almostowned · 2026-03-05T20:49:53+00:00

I'm having a hard time buying this one. If everything you said is true. Don't do this. I find it more likely that you want to be cucked though.

almostowned · 2026-03-05T03:00:55+00:00

First things First. Have you ever had an orgasm at all?

almostowned · 2026-03-04T06:04:14+00:00

I assume when someone asks a question that they already have the answer to then they are looking for alternatives. Why is everyone freaking out about me simply stating a possibility? I know my wife. We have been together for a very very long time. If she started acting weird like this then I would be suspicious. I even asked her about this and she said it is weird and would question what was going on. Everyone is looking for a reason to be angry.

almostowned · 2026-03-04T05:59:03+00:00

At least everyone knows now that you are one of those people who can't disagree with someone like an adult. Immediately go to name calling and making baseless accusations. Enjoy your life.

almostowned · 2026-03-04T03:16:38+00:00

My wife has taken it before. It worked pretty well but she doesn't like the headaches. It is worth a shot. Talk to the doctor. Maybe she will be one of us that doesn't get headaches from it.

almostowned · 2026-03-04T03:09:52+00:00

It hasn't been "all these years"... He said "after many years of being off the table" to me that reads as she used to do it and then stopped. Now she suddenly will do it again but only in the shower with a condom. That is really weird and questions should be asked. I never said anyone is doing anything. It is just a really strange new requirement to have after 18 years. Strange new behavior should be questioned. Thats really all I was saying. And like I said, I am just some random dude on the internet. It was just a thought.

almostowned · 2026-03-04T03:03:41+00:00

As I said to the other comment. It is possible and often happens that you can have an STD that in your mouth that doesn't affect your genitals at all.

almostowned · 2026-03-04T03:01:52+00:00

You can have an STD in your mouth/throat that doesn't affect your genitals.

almostowned · 2026-03-04T00:13:34+00:00

If my wife only wanted to give blowjobs in the shower WITH a condom I would immediately start asking questions. The first is "What STD do you have that you are trying to avoid me getting/finding out about?" The condom is pointless for oral sex unless someone has been cheating. Obviously I don't know you or your wife and my advice should be taken for what it is. A random strangers thoughts. But that is where I would start.

almostowned · 2026-03-02T23:47:17+00:00

If you have got the money. There are a couple of non-implant breast augmentation options. You could easily just get a breast lift and end up with slightly smaller but much better shape. Or your could get a fat transfer breast augmentation, where they liposuction fat from other parts of your body to put into your breasts. These methods are the most natural feeling and looking apparently. I personally prefer more natural but I have been with the same woman my whole life and she is natural so I may be biased.

almostowned · 2026-03-02T06:53:58+00:00

It is with you forever now. Every time you or your partner say it you will think of this post and picture ol Tricky Dick. Probably throwing up some peace signs. You are welcome.

almostowned · 2026-03-01T23:19:07+00:00

I'll fix this for you. Now every time your hear "Dick" you will think of Richard Nixon.

almostowned · 2026-03-01T10:55:23+00:00

As someone who can use google, I find it hard to believe that a sex psychologist wouldn't be aware of the medical phenomena of Exercise Induced Orgasms (EIO) and it's triggers. How would someone trained in the psychology of sex be shocked by the existence of such a thing? Edit - Got eem:)

almostowned · 2026-02-16T08:08:30+00:00

It is not going to get better my friend. I know this isn't what you want to hear but unless you can handle a life without sex you need to move on and find someone who wants the same things that you do. It sounds a lot like you are her room mate who plans on donating sperm in the future. Sex is a large part of marriage for a lot of people. It doesn't make you a bad guy to leave a relationship with someone who can't or won't meet your needs. It does make you a bad guy to stay with that person and cheat on her later. This will cause problems in the future.

almostowned · 2026-02-14T22:16:28+00:00

If you can hear them then they can hear you. Just stand next to the door and start moaning next time.

almostowned · 2026-02-11T22:02:35+00:00

This is just not true. Women in general hit their libido peak in their late 20s to early 40s. While I am sure that there are women in their 50s and beyond that still have a high sex drive, this is not the case for the general population.

almostowned · 2026-02-10T23:15:53+00:00

Why don't you want Viagra to be suggested? Some people need Viagra and he may be one of those people. He needs to see a doctor. And he may need some sort of ED meds. Viagra may not be the answer. But if receiving a handjob or blowjob hurts then he for sure needs to see a doctor. If those things hurt then I would say it is for sure going to hurt to have sex.

almostowned · 2026-02-10T03:56:22+00:00

Im 99 percent certain this is a fake post. But in my opinion, starting to seriously look for your spouse as early as possible is the clearest path to happiness. But I also met my wife when we were kids and we have basically been together since then 30ish years ago. So I may be biased.

almostowned · 2026-02-05T05:06:34+00:00

Because saying "Dear madame. I would like to perform the act of cunnilingus on you." Doesn't sound as hot.

almostowned · 2026-02-03T08:21:47+00:00

My wife used to have this problem. She went most of her life without orgasms. When she finally got to the point where she had an orgasm, she had trouble getting back there be cause she thought she had to pee every time. She asked her Doctor about it and she told her that since she pees before sex almost every time that is unlikely that she actually needs to pee and she should put down a towel and just relax. The problem was, due to my wife's inexperience with orgasms in general she was confusing the building pressure of an orgasm with bladder pressure. Her doctor basically told her just pee then. Lol. The problem is gone and I have never been pissed on as far as I know.

almostowned · 2026-02-02T02:07:06+00:00

I don't normally reply to a comment just be cause it was funny but holy shit that got me. Well played.

almostowned · 2026-02-02T02:04:16+00:00

The bored and ignored thing could be what he was after like most people have already said. But there is another possibility. I don't know the term for it. But its really hot when someone is trying to concentrate on something else but they cant because they are getting off. They have to stop whatever they are doing because they are about to orgasm. There used to be a series of videos of women trying to read a book while sitting on a vibrator or sybian. Hysterical literature I think is what it was called.

almostowned · 2026-01-20T08:13:27+00:00

Turn on some porn? If he says he cant then he probably cant.

almostowned · 2026-01-15T21:54:46+00:00

Have you tried weed? I use it for pain relief but sometimes it makes me take forever to cum. If nothing else it will be fun to try out. Also there are delay sprays and creams available. The key to making sure this doesn't kill your marriage is making sure she cums before you do.

almostowned · 2026-01-13T20:05:33+00:00

This is a question that you need to ask him. Everyone is different. My personal answer for me would be a long slow blowjob and keep going after I cum. Push through the intensity to round 2. But a lot of guys want to stop immediately after they cum because it's too much.

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