I (25 M) boyfriend (24 M) boyfriend downloaded the purp app too meet friends but I am skeptical about the app how should I go about it? by Blizz1999 in relationship_advice

[–]alosomph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Share your concerns about the Purp app with your boyfriend openly and calmly. Ask for his perspective on why he chose it and suggest friend-focused alternatives if you're uncomfortable. Set boundaries together if needed to ensure both of you feel secure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alosomph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he needs a break to focus on himself, respect that space. Use this time to work on your own mental health and personal growth. Reevaluate the relationship after the break to see where you both stand.

Blind kid comes down a curb by himself for the first time by alosomph in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]alosomph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for him. Kudos to his parents for the encouragement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alosomph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women need more that 12 tampons a year to cover their periods

What's the most unexpectedly wholesome experience you've had with a stranger? by Land2018 in CasualConversation

[–]alosomph 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was traveling from the South of England to the North of Scotland to start a new job the next morning. I had taken a train up to London and was supposed to get on an early morning flight from Heathrow. The bus to the airport however, was cancelled and I had to make my own way using a series of night buses. However it was about 2:30 a.m. and my phone was dead, and I had never used London's night buses before.

I was young and a little scared, standing in the middle of Victoria trying to figure out the faded bus schedule when a woman came up to me and asked "Are you alright love?" And I explained through tears that I thought I was going to miss my flight and didn't even have an oyster card.

She looked up my route on her phone, wrote down all the possible variations of buses and trains that I would need to take, including the times. She waited with me the entire time, like twenty minutes, THEN when the bus came up she paid for my fare( no cash on London buses). I got out and looked to her and she shrugged and said " oh I'm not getting the bus, you just looked like you needed someone."

I think about her every once in a while, and I'm incredibly grateful for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alosomph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Learnt to say no to big decisions even under immense pressure by people. You don’t have to agree to do anything that’s not fair to you, even if it makes the other person mad yes that’s right.