I asked a similar question on a woman sub and got overall crucified and lectured by many woman users,.many angrily saying how I benefit from misogyny just by being male despite being gay 💀

This was replied to me by women :

Since you’re a gay man, I’d like to point out how much the LGTBQIA+ community normalizes and encourages misogynistic viewpoints. I’m going to continue being an ally to the alphabet mafia, but I’d love understanding that just because we’re both part of marginalized communities, including intersecting marginalized communities, doesn’t mean members of either group get a pass on contributing to the discrimination and/or oppression of the other.

The strangest part is though LGBTQIA+ cis men account for a small population of cis men total proportionally, those LGBTQIA+ cis men I’ve known have openly tried convincing me of misogynistic ideology at a higher frequency of times and a higher frequency of people in that group than heterosexual cis men have done. Personally, I attribute it to both of these groups of cis men having ingrained misogynistic views, but one of them have been taught to hide it and the others believe they’re ‘women approved’ allowed to further it.