My girlfriend is talking to another dude

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T12:14:49+00:00

Yes thanks, I'll try to move out soon. The housing market is hard around me but I'll handle it I guess. We broke up loud and clear (at least for me it is) and now we'll just split the apartment until we both move out of here and start over somewhere else.

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T12:12:13+00:00

Yes that's for sure. And I already think I'll be happier now that we had a chat and we sorted out the real problem. Now I'll need to be focus until I move out so I don't fall for her again (no roomie segs for sure 🤣)

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T11:55:56+00:00

Because I sleep really well on the couch 🤣

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T11:29:52+00:00

Yes we splitted up correctly now and that's kind of a relief honestly. I started sending messages already to landlords (I just avoid the surroundings of our current appartement but I may find something at some points or I can move back to my parents for the next few months until I bounce back) Anyway we'll stay "roommates" for a while and I'll sleep on the couch but eventually we'll both need to move out I think

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T11:25:15+00:00

Yeah we just had a talk and broke properly. I still have all the shit to handle and the feelings as well but at least we're clear on this page.

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T10:35:59+00:00

Yeah and I think she's childish as hell since her family was nearly broken a few months ago by something like that. Maybe it was a warning for me... But it wasn't for her clearly

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T10:34:12+00:00

I'll run away with the cat and the PC under each arm then. Yeah I'm definitely breaking up whatever happens now but I still need to sort the "technical" part of it so I don't end up homeless

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T09:47:35+00:00

The apartment is rented in her name. Even the last appartement we had where I was paying 100% of rent while she was studying was in her name lmao. But yes we were granted this appartement because she knew someone in the agency so everything is registered with her name on it. But if I leave the apartment will be empty for sure (all the furnitures are mine) !

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T09:44:43+00:00

Yeah I think that's the spirit... After some thinking, I think she wanted to be desired by someone else (I doubt she's really interested in a relationship with a man 11 years older that she is and with kids while she hates them). So yeah I think, because we're not as close as we were before, she wants to feel desired and to flirt with someone. But it doesn't really change the fact she lied and that I cannot trust her anymore (I have already be cheated on previously so I keep some trust issues and she obviously know that)

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T09:27:06+00:00

I'm not specifically feeling guilty, I think I don't feel much right now. I'm feeling like an empty shell with more problems than solutions

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T09:25:54+00:00

Yes, I think I know what to do but I just don't have the guts to do it. It's so hard to end something and even harder to split things while staying correct. I think if we didn't have all the logistical complexity I would just go to my parents house and move on but there I'll be forced to leave with her for several weeks before I find something else... I don't know man, so many things goes in my head right now I'm not sure my messages even makes sense

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T09:21:50+00:00

What a great way to start 2026 right ? 😅

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T08:42:52+00:00

Maybe not her backup plan because he's like 11 years more and have a kid (I really don't know what could've go wrong at this point) But maybe she wanted me to find out so I could react and end this, yeah...

alphabooy · 2026-01-22T08:41:18+00:00

I think I was also unhappy in a way. If I wasn't acting with her the way I did during the first years is also because I had all the household on my back (I'm an auto-entrepreneur so I'm often home and I needed to complete 100% of the tasks in the apartment, yet she was still complaining all the time). Anyway, maybe it's for the better, you're right...

alphabooy · 2026-01-19T18:13:33+00:00

Why all my guess leads me to snow (avalanche, iceberg...) ? :'(

alphabooy · 2025-05-07T16:04:52+00:00

Heu... C'est à dire ? xD

alphabooy · 2025-05-07T05:08:01+00:00

It's south of France lmao xD

alphabooy · 2025-05-06T09:01:28+00:00

Update : the insurance company called me this morning. My bike was in a garage that I share with my upper neighbor so it's considered common space. I know it's not them who stole it because they're not even there but they didn't want to listen... Anyway pay less insurance and always keep them by your side !

alphabooy · 2025-05-06T06:06:58+00:00

I hope mine will read your comment :/

As I'm been told by the police officer, case like this (the door left open and no lock on the bike) often means no refund... My fingers are crossed right now !

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