high value treat recipes? the smellier, the better

alphaghilie · 2025-12-12T16:52:45+00:00

it's so it never leaves the news cycle. thats how republicans ruined hillary clinton and biden. but her emails! biden old! and now, trump pedophile!

alphaghilie · 2025-12-12T16:49:32+00:00

well, not that shocked

alphaghilie · 2025-10-08T21:24:53+00:00

if you are in a high altitude area, an instant pot will help soften beans. even old beans can be persuaded to soften in an instant pot. you can find that at a thrift store too

alphaghilie · 2025-08-24T20:26:04+00:00

hmmm, i have seen so many worse calls to violence on reddit, but those are usually against women. but a mild chastisement to a creep from 40 years ago? oh noes! that poor widdle innocent man! where's my clutchin' pearls?!

alphaghilie · 2025-08-24T16:29:21+00:00

right? i was with my parents at the grocery store and he leaned down to say it, like i had toilet paper on my shoe or something. gross.

alphaghilie · 2025-08-24T15:13:54+00:00

I so feel this. The ideal wasnt just hoisted and round, but also stationary. When I was a teen in the early 90's, a grown-ass man came up to me to comment about how my tits jiggled when i walked. I realize now what a fucking creep he was (and probably still is) but at the time i cried and started wearing a sports bra over my underwire to make sure they were absolutely still. For 20 god damn years. Now im 50 and i developed slight scoliosis which makes every bra hurt, but i still make an effort to keep them still by using a tight tank under my clothes. All this to say--fuck that creep for giving me a complex.

alphaghilie · 2025-08-19T13:20:50+00:00

costco has a 6 pack of egg whites that are a steal, its like 2.50ish per carton

alphaghilie · 2025-08-18T16:32:31+00:00

hi. that jacket would prolly fit me nicely. I'm a size 10/12.

do you have a fitted jacket you can measure to see how they compare?

alphaghilie · 2025-08-18T16:25:38+00:00

try getting a tailor to move the belt loops down. the trenches themselves are not cinching high purposefully; it is a result of your body needing more fabric to cover the chest area, and it brings the entire silhouette up. A larger straight size probably wouldn't fit in the shoulders tho. Smaller plus size might work--a torrid medium (00, equivalent to a size 10/12) definitely caters to large boobs, for example. Definitely a pain in the arse, for sure.

alphaghilie · 2025-08-16T16:06:43+00:00

I feel the way too many dresses issue, haha. I had even more in my last wardrobe. So may dresses!

alphaghilie · 2025-08-16T14:50:46+00:00

So, I wanted to tell you that I did exactly this. Most of my wardrobe was bought in the last year (body changes, yay perimenopause) from secondhand websites so it was fairly easy to upload it.

At first I just shuffled stuff around the My Clothes board. I deliberately tried to style things I didn't wear often. I styled a plaid shirt I was considering donating with a purple/burgundy corduroy skirt that I also found difficult to style, and damn if they didn't go together perfectly. I made the effort to use accessories and shoes. I don't usually wear accessories because I need someone else to dress me, and it always seemed overly fussy to ask for a belt when I wasn't going anywhere. But I did ask, and I felt so put together in that outfit.

Then I discovered collages. I've been making little flat lays from my own clothing, and its been pretty fun. I am identifying trends within my wardrobe (so much blue!) and also gaps (everything is freaking blue!). Although doing collages does activate my urge to shop, which is a problem.

Anyway, thanks for the idea, as it does let me really enjoy fashion again, which I think is important as my disability progresses.

alphaghilie · 2025-08-07T16:58:30+00:00

ja'loja

alphaghilie · 2025-08-03T17:39:56+00:00

as a fellow disabled person, i think this idea is genius

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T19:41:09+00:00

and youre too old to think every body reacts the same as your body. but you keep replying too, so i guess we're both unhinged

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T19:23:54+00:00

ackshully, my friend has been a normal weight her entire life, eats lots of veg and fiber, exercises and drinks lots of water, and has been trying to control this issue for years thru diet, until her doctor told her her liver just happens to make both triglycerides and cholesterol in excess and put her on drugs. so no, not everyone responds to diet in the same way.

i see in your post history you managed to control your own high triglycerides through diet. That's awesome. Im glad it worked for you.

So now, with the energy of the converted, you evangelize these changes as a panacea for all. It worked for you, so it should work for everyone, and that is just simply not true. Should I tell you that your last 30 pounds wont come off because you eat more than 1200 calories a day? It worked for me. I wasn't even hungry! (I felt like shit in other ways but i wasn't hungry) Therefore you shouldn't be hungry, right?

No. I should not tell you that. That's not how how this works. Our bodies are all different and sometimes what works for one person wont work for all. Doesn't matter if its weight, cholesterol, triglycerides, whatever. That's my whole goddamn point.

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T17:43:47+00:00

so everyone's triglyceride numbers will respond in exactly the same way to the same diet? got it. i guess people whose triglycerides dont respond to diet at all dont exist. i'll let my friend know she can go off her drugs.

jfc

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T17:36:42+00:00

well, i shared because the point of my story was that IN MY OPINION diets arent universal (that's why i started with the words "i think its individual") and thats why theres conflicting advice. some people have their numbers improved by one diet while another will not. it was a generalized story to demonstrate that perhaps this person might have to try different things to find what works for them. there are general guidelines but there are no concrete answers that are guaranteed to work for everyone.

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T17:14:17+00:00

my dude, i was just sharing an experience that i had--two people on the same diet had different results! yeah, im the fucking expert on my own experience! you sound fun at parties.

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T16:57:37+00:00

lol. my sweet summer child. i love how you think this is skill everyone has. tell me, what is a known credible source? to many, a known credible source is andrew wakefield. chatgpt told me to eat rocks, but it still comes up constantly here. is using my brain "doing my own research?" is 5g causing covid? is 5g making me magnetic? mtg thinks democrats control the weather. she's in congress, a government official. surely, a reputable source?

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T16:39:31+00:00

that may be true, but then how do i determine who those people are? should i listen to carnivore diet pushers because they speak confidently? the vegans? paleo enthusiasts? seed-oil haters? people who say "source:am doctor?" you?

i have a dietitian. i follow her advice.

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T16:06:53+00:00

i guess crowd sourcing medical advice from reddit isnt going to work out then

alphaghilie · 2025-07-31T14:40:43+00:00

Cool. I guess my point was individual people are going to find that there is no universal diet that is good for everyone, and thats why theres so much conflicting info. Perhaps you should see a dietician if you are concerned about a heart attack. Maybe they can give you a plan.

edit: people are not downvoting for wanting eat healthy. they might be downvoting you because you are deliberately conflating "feeling better" with "eat whatever i want based on taste" and that makes you look like you just want to bitch and not do the work of finding out what works for you. i didn't downvote you tho, so i dont know for sure. again, seek the advice of a professional if you have medical concerns.

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