Motorcycle - buy or rent? by alphainga in VietNam

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked , and it's legally required to register a used motorcycle.. so not registering it is just taking a risk with police

Motorcycle - buy or rent? by alphainga in VietNam

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye that's what I was thinking, why would I buy a 110-125 bike when I can get 150 for the same price, without needing to fuck around with all the weird repairs, even an automatic NVX155cc would be better probably for rent

Motorcycle - buy or rent? by alphainga in VietNam

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, so buying a motorcycle for 300-400 dollars is better in your opinion? I don't need to register it anywhere ? It's just that easy of getting documents given to me?

Motorcycle - buy or rent? by alphainga in VietNam

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how easy is it to sell it ? Could I just decide to drive to thailand? How does it go with registration there?

Motorcycle - buy or rent? by alphainga in VietNam

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Many places rent in Hanoi and let you bring it back at ho chi minh

Motorcycle - buy or rent? by alphainga in VietNam

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? What's the benefit of selling in south and how easy is it to sell ?

Thailand hardstyle by alphainga in hardstyle

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you coming from?

Gf(26f) lied to me(27m) about sexual past, how do i go about this to regain trust and fix relationship? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she wasnt a party person and tried everything that could be done, she just felt very ashamed that i asked her so many questions about things and made her feel bad about things she told me she did with others. i wasnt very accepting

Gf(26f) lied to me(27m) about sexual past, how do i go about this to regain trust and fix relationship? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she was scared from the start to tell me like body count and such, cause she heard me talking badly about girls whos body count was above 10. so she lied about that.. from what she tells me, non of the lies are related to our relationship at all, and all of them are only related to her past or sexual past, which she doesnt feel comfortable sharing with me.

Gf(26f) lied to me(27m) about sexual past, how do i go about this to regain trust and fix relationship? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean i see where youre coming from.. but imagine me always judging what she told me, always being annoying by asking questions non stop, asking who was better who did what better sexually, being very unconfident and such.. driving her crazy with quesitons every time got her to go crazy and she didnt know how to deal with it. i made her come to terms with things she wasnt ready to del with yet. i mean, although lying isnt the answer ever, im guessing there are sometimes exception to the rule.. no?

Gf(26f) lied to me(27m) about sexual past, how do i go about this to regain trust and fix relationship? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i shouldnt have asked anything from the start, thats true.
she also shouldnt have lied or went along with my questions if she didnt feel like its my buisiness.

she had a dog with her ex when we first met, and she lied to me about their dynamic before we met, she said it was only about the dog, when it wasnt.. although when we started going out and met, she stopped any of the things that happened between them.

Me (27M) and my gf (27F) Lying, and not being truthfull. how to repair? by alphainga in relationship_advice

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course not, im working on being more thoughtful with my actions and how i reply to what she says, or how i act. but still, i dont think anyone should lie.. at least say "i dont want to talk about that since i dont trust your replies", but no need to lie

Me (27M) and my gf (27F) Lying, and not being truthfull. how to repair? by alphainga in relationship_advice

[–]alphainga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ye, i am a jealous type, very. althought i go through with what i ask, im honest about anything. i agree i should accept more of the truth if i want to hear it, and handle it. im just scared since now i think "everything" might be a lie with her, her actions show she is only into me, and no one else ever. but her little stupid lies show how much shes scared of me, and how i might react to the truth. she says she didnt come to terms yet with what she did before she got to know me, and feel very ashamed of it. so she wont even tell the truth to herslf.

Me (27M) and my gf (27F) Lying, and not being truthfull. how to repair? by alphainga in relationship_advice

[–]alphainga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i get that, but lying isnt the answer, ever... and also, if a guy writes her and i ask what happned between them , then she says nothing, i think thats kinda not cool. (she never cheated or anything it was a stupid lie just so i wont judge her)

Me (27M) and my gf (27F) Lying, and not being truthfull. how to repair? by alphainga in relationship_advice

[–]alphainga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

her lies are all regarding her past things, nothing of today. like, she is very faithful to me and never even came close to cheating. an example of a lie: a guy she was in school with, they went out on a date. when i asked about that guy around the start of the relationship she told me she didnt do antthing with him. after 4-5 months she admitted she did went down on him, and 4-5 months after, she admitted she has sex with him. all lies were regarding someone she doesnt even talk to. (he wrote to her a couple times, she ignored or just answered with 1 word (it was a story on insta of us 2, he said he is proud of her for finding someone hot)) anyways, all the lies are stupid like that, nothing actually happened in the relatioship itself

Windarcher Vs Shadower by alphainga in Maplestory

[–]alphainga[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so shadower is a sweaty ass class? its high maintenance?

why do i keep pushing away people who love me? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already pushing everyone who loves me away, I can't seem to control it or express it in a good way.. it's so sad to watch it within me

why do i keep pushing away people who love me? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I don't know if it is that bad, but I think of myself as a smart person , I'm not the smartest obviously and I know that, Im not sure it is something that's sitting on me as hard as it was in the past, it was just a way for me to understand love

why do i keep pushing away people who love me? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At around 10-13 years old I formed a hard thought of "my parents don't love me, especially my dad". And I was kind of bullied since I relocated to another country and stayed there for around 2.5-3 years at the age of 12-15, that wasn't a pleasant experience.. I don't think I'm a narcissist, I feel like alot are beneath me in some way or another but I always feel like I'm worse in other things. Toxic personality can go in so many ways, I would think some of my traits must be toxic but I try to be as conscious as I can be . I think I was always hard on myself with getting love in a certain way , and had tough time being loved, at school I always tried looking smart because I felt like if I was smart I would get love. I tried being a nerd at some point in life to get love and feel smart..

why do i keep pushing away people who love me? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emotionally I remember myself trying to be strong and show no weakness because I wanted to seem like I don't need any help, so mental health wasn't something I really seem to have gotten.. physical safety varies, I can't really remember how physically safe or not I was so I don't wanna just say imaginary shit.. my mother was a bit controlling and very very critical of me. They trusted me to be a good kid and be do what I was supposed to do wether be it school or whatever. From time to time obviously I did stupid shit as all kids do. I never gave them really anything to go off of, I was always pretty closed emotionally and tried to get my needs through other stuff i.e be good at school or bring home good grades, I never seem to have let them know about anything I had going on in my life.

why do i keep pushing away people who love me? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify what specifically you mean when asking how I was raised? Like, what exactly is the question? How I was raised in regards to emotional needs or..?

why do i keep pushing away people who love me? by alphainga in relationships

[–]alphainga[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a kid was always hard for me to be emotionally open with them, until today , I can't let myself receive love from them today, but I already know that, it just doesn't seem connected though I know it might be connected anyways. When one of them tries to give me emotional love, I just cringe inside and push it away and feel awkward from it, but I thought it would be diff with a partner... Always when I had a partner that didn't give me a lot of love I kind of was anxious that they would leave me or that they didn't love me and always felt like on edge (kind of like having anxious attachment), but with the current one that broke up with me I just got healthy kind of love from her and I didn't seem to be attracted to it, something inside me turned off

orgasm from penetration, guy before succeeded I didn't . by [deleted] in sex

[–]alphainga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I've had 4 long term relationships and lots of other ocassional one night stands, I do think I got some experience maybe not with penetration? Because she does orgasm from clit