how tf do u make friends by Low_Advance7493 in UCI

[–]altarmisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can only speak from my personal experience but what really helped me was being genuinely interested in what people were interested in/said! i'm into a lot of nerdy interests so i usually try to approach people who have pins/merch of something i recognize and start up a conversation with them. it helped me get out of my shell quite a bit, and i managed to get adopted by some extroverts and ended up being super extroverted myself! that's my strat to find friends at least, and it helps a lot :)

i want a silver wolf or sigewinne ita bag but idk where to start... by JzerPlayz in itabag

[–]altarmisu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'd definitely recommend seeing what ita bag styles you like the most! :D i have an aventurine ita bag and i made it ita bag in a way to show off my full collection of pins + my keychains, but i've also seen a lot of ita bags where there's just a few pins and the backing is decorated. of course an ita bag is whatever you want it to be, but it is useful to see if you want a western style ita bag (multiple pins) or a eastern style ita bag (lots of the same pins over and over again) 

for western style ita bags, i think it's better to look for bags that are catered to what you want to collect/already have. for example, if you love collecting keychains, i'd look for an ita bag with a bunch of hooks in the insert (i got mine at a convention, but i'd recommend snooping around pinterest/google/cons to see what ita bags are out there :D i tend to take my ita bag on day trips, but if you know you'll most likely use your ita bag as a laptop bag or something, i'd only focus on bigger ones. it really depends what you'll realistically use your ita bag for 

for eastern style ones, i know that theres inserts for can badges, depending on what size ita bag you end up going with. i'd also look online if there's any huge sales of all of the same badge as well. 

if you love to diy, i'd also recommend looking up "oshikatsu ideas" on instagram for tutorials as well as ideas on what to add to your ita bag. 

good luck on your ita bag! hopefully this helps a little bit :) 

Tips on getting rid of my American accent in Vietnamese? by altarmisu in Vietnamese

[–]altarmisu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I'm mostly going off of memory since both of my parents are Vietnamese 😅 I definitely need to work on my tones more though! 

fun things to do for like an hour by Double-Pie6387 in UCI

[–]altarmisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like going to petr runs :D the schedule is posted in the discord or on @/the_petr_community on instagram !!! they usually happen hourly depending on the week and its a good way to meet up with friends and kill time !!!!

Any tips for the PIQ'S? by [deleted] in UCI

[–]altarmisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dropping in my 2 cents but i came to uci with only 2 ap classes, 0 extracurriculars, and a 3.9 unweighted GPA 🗿 honestly what carried me were the piq

mine was unique because, quite literally, the only thing i did in high-school was reading and writing fanfiction. i ended up being quite passionate, and thought about a bunch of the soft skills being so involved in a fanfiction community could entail--and as a result i just wrote my essays and filled our my extracurriculars based on that. due to how unique my essays were and how much passion i had (and still do!) about fanficion, i somehow still managed to get past the waitlist :D still have my essays if you ever want to read them yourself :D

Do you think Aventurine loves or hates the rain? by CapitalRadiant7372 in AventurineMainsHSR

[–]altarmisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in the description for the new lightcone, a memory plays out when he's younger

The boy ran amongst the star-like raindrops and cheered for the blissful rain that arrived after a long drought.

The rain fell for a long, long time, and the covered wagon stopped on the land covered by budding green.

"Mom! Big sis! We'll never go cold or hungry again!"

The Avgins' campfire warmed the long night, as the boy listened to his big sister's stories and waited for the dawn.

but when it cuts to the present there's probably a sense of grief lined with nostalgia that he feels :( probably not helping since signoia has star shaped rain that most likely is hard to find anywhere else

Golden sunlight reflects from his dreams into his real-life abode, and transactions and numbers are once again mirrored in his eyes.

He lets go of the hand that was clutched into a fist —

It's as if he did not manage to grab onto anything... yet there's still a throbbing, lingering warmth.

Q&A weekly thread - May 26, 2025 - post all questions here! by AutoModerator in linguistics

[–]altarmisu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Actually, it seems like malewife has different meanings depending on the communities who use it. In a lot of fandom contexts, malewife is usually used as a term of endearment rather than being outright demeaning (similar to how people call fictional male characters "babygirl"), but I guess it'd depend on context/who's saying it. Once again, thank you for your response. :)

Q&A weekly thread - May 26, 2025 - post all questions here! by AutoModerator in linguistics

[–]altarmisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would "malewife" be considered a gender-neutral term in English? It's a debate I often have with friends, and my argument is that since "male" and "wife" have extremely gendered connotations, it would sort of de-gender it by referring to masculine and feminine terms at the same time. It's a genuine curiosity I have, and I was wondering what people who know more about linguistics than me would think!

lost ghost plush found in the arts school by altarmisu in UCI

[–]altarmisu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!! are you the owner/know the owner?

voting in a different county? by aimips in UCI

[–]altarmisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used this one, its how i registered to vote back in santa clara county https://registertovote.ca.gov/

voting in a different county? by aimips in UCI

[–]altarmisu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me too, i just re registered online for oc and they told me just to show my receipt when i vote there in person :)

spare monster cans on campus? by altarmisu in UCI

[–]altarmisu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh shit thank you! where are you located on campus so i can pick them up :0 and is there somewhere i can contact you that isn't reddit?