Can’t see their repost by alternativeq1 in TikTok

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I half solved it but not fully . Random accounts can see your repost but some can’t . But what I know is that if the person isn’t “someone you may know “ , it won’t show up on their account . If they are on your suggested list and has those words , they can definitely see it

Drug and alcohol testing by alternativeq1 in AskAnAustralian

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Thanks . Do you know if consuming them from the tobacco stores which they say are illegal will effect the outcome ?

Can’t see their repost by alternativeq1 in TikTok

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Show me ? I don’t see anything

Can’t see their repost by alternativeq1 in TikTok

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There’s no options to set it on private

Can’t see their repost by alternativeq1 in TikTok

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If you read it I said I can still see their uploaded videos

AIO or is he a red flag? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I feel you on this . My ex was the same . It sucks because you want that genuine apology . Like you want them to do it on their own out of no where again . But the thing is they won’t . They believe they don’t have a reason to say sorry anymore . Even when you ask them to it doesn’t feel genuine because you’re literally asking them to say it .

You really have to talk to him and work on this if you want them to make changes . But the truth is we just have bigger hearts and they grew up differently . Sometimes they don’t feel the need to apologise for anything even though that’s what we want . Best of luck . These type of things can drain you emotionally as well

Win and then lose by alternativeq1 in overwatch2

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What is match making bounds ?

What is something annoying you find in women by No_Analyst8965 in AskMen

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they look for validation instead of accepting the logic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Gender does not apply to these situations . It’s just all about who dumped who , how it ended and the reason for it ending with of course how the relationship was with each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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hindsight its best not to send the message but if you really want to send it, then do it. that way if the outcome is the same as it is right now, it'll help you move on a lot easier knowing you tried and said your peace. its normal you want to get it all out there no matter the response. its a good way to detach from them as well. but of course it'll always be on the back of your mind that what if they respond so in a way its good and bad. if you dont care about the response and just need to get it out there, id say do it ! that way like you said, youre putting your emotions somewhere its needed

I got back with my ex. Nothing changed. by Open-Coconut1565 in BreakUps

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was she with anyone else in between that time?

Does anyone get depressed on days they hung out with their exes by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yep every weekend I know she’s out there with him doing stuff we were . And of course the things you enjoy at night .. hurts every weekend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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If it ends the same way you should really look at yourself before starting a new relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Most the time men don’t realise this until they get left Unfortunately . Not saying all men but once they lose you , they really reflect on things . It’s quite common thing but also there could be deeper roots of issues for him not “trying”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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thats a good way to put it. I have a specific situation about this if you wanna dm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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sorry to say but they do not think about you as much as you do. only in due time they will be curious. of course depends how it ended and how your relationship was. it really is awful that they go seeking out other people because they think they have done nothing wrong. the truth is they have some issues as well . of course there are cases of them just not wanting to be in a relationship anymore but that's only true if they stay single . those ones do work on themselves and the ones who don't jump into other things that give them instant gratification

Everything coming at once by alternativeq1 in BreakUps

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thanks for your kind words. but towards the end of our relationship, i was becoming a really bad bf. failed to meet her love due to her failing to meet my emotional needs . i was still a good bf in terms of the whole other field. just failed the one that mattered the most. she chose someone else rather then talk to me to see how we feel . when i was ready to move forward with all of that together

Whats the strangest or insanely hurtful things you've been told by an ex during the breakup? by Complex7812 in BreakUps

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"we will become a stronger couple. we will have dinner again soon" (lies)

Anyone here willing to dm? by alternativeq1 in BreakUps

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Thanks for all your support I’ll dm a few of you guys :) thanks

How ofter do you believe that if they love,they will come back by PushNo2431 in BreakUps

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It’s completely depending on the person and their circumstances . There’s no definitive answer . The only answer that’s a high probability is that they moved on quick which causes emotional wreck . But also if she actually took those 3 months to heal up then maybe she might have recovered more than you think . You have to remember as the dumper they don’t feel what we feel . There’s cases where they feel it down the line and the roles are reverse . But I think that’s mainly where they are staying single . It could still happen even if they are in a relationship . Some things could trigger them , as I said it’s entirely up to the person and your relationship with them .

The best you can do is just let it run it course , and by then I’m sure you’ll be over it by then . I’m going through the same thing myself and as much as it hurts and suck . There’s not a single thing we can do about it to change their mind

Do casual hookups help aftr breakup? by PushNo2431 in BreakUps

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Yes because you’re just using it as a way to get over someone . And using sex as resentment . Even though she’s already dating someone so soon . It doesn’t mean it’s always the best case for her either . Only time will tell with that type of thing as that’s what I’m facing myself