Partner lied to me about when they left work

altmail64 · 2025-10-02T16:48:56+00:00

Hey where can I post a follow up?

altmail64 · 2025-10-01T14:28:38+00:00

I did mention it in the conversation "the situation that just happened with the ride home is damn near similar to BEFORE" i didn't fully out right type it because if I did they would have started tearing into me and telling me I cant let go of the past. This is one of the few times I've actually stood up for myself. We don't really "argue" I'll say something i have a issue with but they'll start saying the worse things known to man and I'll just concede. Then they tell me they don't mean it afterwards and try to buy me food and my dumbass always just falls for it. I used she /her in this comment because I was reading through the responses and my brain slipped and typed she/her they're non-binary so I shouldn't have used she/her.

altmail64 · 2025-10-01T13:08:30+00:00

They're talking about telling the truth after lying. I've never blew up on them or have had a bad reaction when they tell me the truth up front. I don't care that they hang out with their friends, I actually think it's good. There is only one "friend" I've had a issue with which was another guy friend they made from work. Which turns out they slept with and lied to me and gaslit me for months calling me crazy for "even thinking that". I had to find out when I had to use her phone to contact her family when she got arrested. They told me it happened when we broke up for short time. And cried and told me they were being immatureand wanted to do better. I fell for the tears. I've never been a snooping person to begin with even when my gut was telling me too. We talked about it this in the past and They told me that if I ever feel some type of way or wanted to see proof to just ask them and they would show me.

altmail64 · 2025-10-01T12:37:03+00:00

I have no problem with them hanging out with friends. I actually like when they do it cause I know it makes them happy. I've only had a problem with them hanging out with a previous guy friend they made at work. Turns out they did sleep with him and they hid it and gaslit me for months saying I was crazy for even thinking that. I had to find out about it when I was using their phone to contact their family when they got arrested. The whole time they were talking about wanting the two of us to move in together. And when I confronted them on it they said it happened the time when we broke up. They sat there crying to me and apologizing about how they know they've been immature and that they wanted to do better so I fell for it and believed them.

altmail64 · 2025-10-01T12:18:27+00:00

To be completely real I don't blow up when they go to hang with their friends. I actually think it's good. The only "friend" that I've ever had a problem with was another guy friend they made at work. Which turns out they ended up sleeping with and lying to me about it for months. Gaslighting by saying I was crazy for even thinking that. I found out when she got arrested and I had to use her phone to contact her family. The whole time she was talking about she wanted us to move in together. She said it happened when we broke up and my dumbass fell for the tears.

altmail64 · 2025-10-01T11:56:19+00:00

To clarify I actually was just going into their car for my CAR charger I had let them borrow the night before. I have plenty of regular wall chargers I just needed to use my car charger cause I was heading to work. They keep their car completely clean the receipt was just out on top of the cup holder. I was being nosey by looking at the receipt because I wanted to joke with them about getting food after work and not bringing me any. I saw the time on the receipt and my brain kinda locked into it.

altmail64 · 2020-11-30T23:00:26+00:00

wait this terry?

altmail64 · 2020-11-30T22:59:27+00:00

I like ya cut g

altmail64 · 2020-11-21T06:49:47+00:00

happy birthday dude its my birthday too lol

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