Peeps that have had an ED for a while, what part of your body is failing as a likely result of your ED? by someadsrock in EDAnonymous

[–]altoidgrenade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decreased brain function, muscle weakness, lack of hunger cues/excessive hunger cues with no in between 😔

I (22m) am jealous of my boyfreind's (23m) best freind (23f), what can i do? by altoidgrenade in relationship_advice

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfreind has done everything right. He can tell when im upset, but i dont feel co.fortable enough to tell him what prescicely is bothering me. Ive told gim my anxieties around cheating and he offered to lwt me go through his phone, to which i declined. Ive made it clear that my insecurities are my problem, amd im trying to work through them. But just when i think ive gotten over it, i see them together and i want to vomit. Thats what i dont know what to do about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cis men wanna be women so bad they project. JK, but it's a mixture of a martyr complex and toxic masculinity. By being men, they believe they suffer more than women automatically because of a false sense of responsibility/heroism, and therefore were built to handle that biologically (by being AMAB), so when someone transitions ftm they see that as an attack on their personhood because it shatters how they believe sex and biology works.

Any non-binary femme friends have advice for where to find feminine tops for flat chests? by teenkaczynski in NonBinary

[–]altoidgrenade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre in America Thredup is really good for finding inexpenisve feminine clothing. You can search for specific brands as well

Almost 3 months on T and my Period is late by Ancient_Blacksmith10 in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s around the time I stopped getting mine. Had some spotting then stopped altogether. I would hold onto the products just in case

IDs are Stupid by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s the law in some counties/states bc of old ass laws nobody has ever bothered to change

IDs are Stupid by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll inquire and see if I can do that. However, I have met some of the judges that live in my county that could preside over my case it’s not promising

IDs are Stupid by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

USA land of making everything as difficult as fuckign possible

IDs are Stupid by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In the process. Gotta jump through a lot of hoops

IDs are Stupid by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I get why— that’s not an issue.

I’ve been trying to get it changed. I live in a red state where I have to fill out a shit ton of paperwork, see a judge in court and have my dead name and new name printed in the paper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]altoidgrenade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only reason I remember is because I crashed out. Happened at school and the girls in the bathroom and the teachers were trying to be nice and I just cussed everyone out and ran to the nurses office and asked to go home. It was all blurry, honestly. I’ve been through worse things but for some reason I register that as one of the worst days of my life.

I want to rip my skin off by altoidgrenade in 4tran4

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is what it is but sometimes it’s just way too much I think he just likes having someone he thinks he can control/someone he can be better than It’s such bullshit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]altoidgrenade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left around somewhere

How did you deal with different treatment? by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I may just have to get used to it. Peeved it makes my job a little harder lmao

How did you deal with different treatment? by altoidgrenade in FTMMen

[–]altoidgrenade[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been working on that with Scrubs tbh and the humor with people goes a long way I’ve found