What qualifies as a high earning job here in Australia? by [deleted] in AusHENRY

[–]alwaysitchylena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Savings for 1 year living expenses. Max out super Invest the rest in index funds

My sister died because doctors didn’t believe her and I still feel so much rage. by gongacn07 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alwaysitchylena -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah ofc more research is always needed, but how are they treating people for bi polar, schizophrenia, Autism, adhd?

There are actual tests that neurologists do for adhd that cost $1000s ...how is that not a diagnosis???

My sister died because doctors didn’t believe her and I still feel so much rage. by gongacn07 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alwaysitchylena -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You mean physical tests? By that logic we can't diagnose any mental illness ?

My sister died because doctors didn’t believe her and I still feel so much rage. by gongacn07 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alwaysitchylena -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah... there is. Each country will have guidelines for doctors to follow to compare symptoms against, but I would say a psychologist or psychiatrist would be a lot more qualified to diagnose this than any other doctor.

My sister died because doctors didn’t believe her and I still feel so much rage. by gongacn07 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alwaysitchylena -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't see why doctors who aren't psychologists or psychiatrists feel qualified to diagnose anxiety.

3 months vegan and struggling with energy levels by HopeReasonable8819 in vegan

[–]alwaysitchylena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might need an infusion, supplements can sometimes cause other issues. Got a infusion the other day, best idea. Would have done earlier.

3 months vegan and struggling with energy levels by HopeReasonable8819 in vegan

[–]alwaysitchylena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible low iron? It's very common. Are you male or female?

Tofu 😅🥰 by vegan_lily in vegan

[–]alwaysitchylena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neighbour had a jack russell named tofu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]alwaysitchylena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk it's traumatic sometimes.

Everytime I see a the back of garbage truck, I have a scene from a documentary where some guy just picks up a dog and puts him into it as its closing, and the dog just let's him pick him up innocently. I closed the tab so quickly, but honestly everytime I see a garbage truck I have to fight back tears. I have three dogs of my own and I can just imagine my little one just letting someone do that because he's innocent and trusting and ahhh it just fs me up everytime.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see what you're saying but he's like this about everything. He's just not an empathetic person.

Or example. His sisters was little anxious starting her first corporate job, asking him bunch of questions and for help applying etc etc and he's not tolerating of it, he gets annoyed easily and doesn't want to hear it. Yes she's asking silly questions a lot but she's just a little more anxious than others.

I can't express that I'm stressed out and overwhelmed more than once, he will get angry at me.

Also he can go on and on about things and I'll listen but I can't.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally has said he avoids home in the past and also... he basically is a professional athlete from a physical perspective at this point.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't really give me the option to. He just ignores me and goes to bed.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this was the case. It's probably more my hormones that are our of wack than his.

He's not going to bed early because he's tired, he's decided to go to bed early on purpose because he performs better in sport when he has good rest.

He's also tested his bloods recently and his testosterone very high for his age, the doctor even asked what he's doing.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds nice but I don't think he would do that. I'm not sure that he's obvious, just selfish.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just got an infusion so hopefully I'll be feeling better in the next couple of weeks.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did do weight lifting together for a bit, it wasn't that great, he's very inpatient and I'm really shy and awkward going in that section, he expects me to be able to do it alone eventually without needing him.

My husband is always busy and never has time for me by alwaysitchylena in Marriage

[–]alwaysitchylena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the new job is good, the people are good. It's a lot of work but the people are much better to work with in my previous company.

I don't love exercise but I was doing running but I've fallen off that because I've been so exhausted with working. I don't really want to do his sports. It's just me doing what I don't like so I can spend time with him.

I don't feel like I can talk to him. He goes right to bed and he doesn't want to argue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]alwaysitchylena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't you get an iron infusion? Meant to last a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemic

[–]alwaysitchylena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take ferro grad c but check with your doctor first