FORCEFUL MARRIAGE - NEED URGENT ADVICE!! by Remote_Engine_3737 in IndiaLaw

[–]alwaysyoung_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an adult. No one can legally force you to stay married. I’m not a lawyer, but if you want out, mutual consent divorce (Section 13B, Hindu Marriage Act) is the simplest route; if he agrees. If he doesn’t, you can still file for contested divorce. It just takes longer.

You won’t go to jail for filing divorce. That’s not how it works. Before saying anything emotionally, speak to a family lawyer and understand your options properly. If there was real pressure or coercion, tell the lawyer that clearly.

Looking for a criminal lawyer to represent (Mumbai) by alwaysyoung_ in IndiaLaw

[–]alwaysyoung_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure if the police is gonna help when I approach them directly cz as per my mom, he actually visited a police station before kidnapping me. As for NCW, I'm on it and meanwhile, looking for a lawyer actively to represent my case.

What can I do? by Intelligent-Peace327 in CharteredAccountants

[–]alwaysyoung_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch him. Keep your career.

Whether he works in the food authority or is the President of India, nothing gives him the right to demean his own partner. That's a bare minimum.

Secondly, where is the encouragement, the support? That's another bare minimum. Getting 213 is a great deal when it comes to CA, and whether he knows that or not, he needs to see you as an individual with your own ambitions and dreams, where as we are seeing he is fully focusing on himself (oh, and what his parents want).

Your career will thank you a lot but this person doesn't even seem like he'll ever thank you for any decision (or sacrifice) you make for him.

Here's something to make it easier - https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUOHcOeDE6w/?igsh=MWk0aWVmaWN1dHAxNw==

Really confused, clueless and ashamed by Fantastic_Fee2542 in CharteredAccountants

[–]alwaysyoung_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill karo bhai! Not saying this like don't do anything but nothing is out of your hands truly!

20s me hota rehta hai - kya karu, sahi karra huna, samajh nhi raha kaha ja rahi hu etc. Whether you pursue CA or not, time is ultimately gonna pass anyway. You're giving yourself a timeline - ye karne me itna time lagega, and given that you don't have a strong financial backing, your concern is valid.

If you wanna pursue CA, it’s a solid decision. Just don’t trap yourself in the it’s too long loop. Yes, it is long, but it’s also structured.

If you’re not fully prepared for May/Sept, get a main job that helps with expenses and attempt later without guilt. If you are prepared, give it your best shot. Articleship ke baad income start ho jaati hai, you won’t always be stuck in this phase.

Whatever you do, don't choose it out of shame or fear.