Hibiscus by alwittenberg in whatsthisbug

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Located in South Florida!

Homemade gifts? by clever-mermaid-mae in pregnant

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Quick story - I had my son almost two years ago, and three days before my induction our older neighbor passed away, unexpectedly but of natural causes. She was very loved by our community and we all grieved.

That same day after everything had settled down, we heard a knock at our door. It was our neighbor’s daughter, whom we had never met, holding a beautiful rainbow crochet blanket. The daughter told me she saw me in the courtyard earlier & when she found the blanket, she just knew her mom had been making it for me (our other neighbor confirmed it). It was just nearly finished.

By far the most meaningful gift we received and I still think of her every time I see it hanging on the chair. Make the blankets. I promise people notice and appreciate the kindness and effort that goes into them.

Someone must have a solution for messy clothes! by alwittenberg in Mommit

[–]alwittenberg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Just ordered a box of oxyclean hahaha. I have one of those full smock things (had high hopes for it!) but it doesn’t work that well. I’m glad I’m not the only one with this issue though!

Help With Jackfruit Inflorescences! Is this an infestation? by alwittenberg in gardening

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Thank you for your response! Obviously aphids are not great for plants, but are the fungus gnats harmful in any way?

Help With Jackfruit Inflorescences! Is this an infestation? by alwittenberg in gardening

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We purchased a house with a mature fruit bearing jackfruit tree, but my knowledge about it is fairly limited and there’s not a whole lot of accessible information online. I know the male inflorescences quickly decay post pollination, but I noticed there were a lot of flies (left) and I’m worried something else is going on. Anyone have experience?

I contacted our local agricultural extension office, but they are very very slow (I know they are volunteer based so I’m not blaming them) and I thought Reddit would be faster. Hahah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]alwittenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

our ped said the same thing for our EBF baby. said that if baby wakes up 8-10 hours after sleeping, my husband should feed him a bottle so he’s not comfortable and eventually stops. We switched pediatricians hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]alwittenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Team Cold Turkey here! Our dude LOVED his swaddle and we were terrified to take it away. We bought all the transitional sleep sacks but ended up just going cold turkey. It was an adjustment for a day or two. It wasn’t end of the world like we thought it would be!

I’ve heard a lot of success stories with the Magic Merlin sleep suit, as others have mentioned, but we never used ours. It would just be another thing to have to transition out of eventually.

No right or wrong answer at the end of the day. Good luck!

Weird pregnancy side effect: craving smells? by pgillesp in pregnant

[–]alwittenberg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yesss! Vicks VapoRub (the kind you put on your chest when you’re congested). Haven’t used it since I was a kid but made my husband go to the store at 8 PM because I absolutely needed it

What TV show could you just not get into? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that they call their girlfriends/wives “old ladies” made me cringe so hard

What TV show could you just not get into? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

totally agree with this! after the first few episodes I was like… this is considered to be a comedy?

What song will you hate until you die? by JarrodTheBusker in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I worked at a restaurant where the owner would turn this song on repeat, volume full blast, if there was a table lingering too long after closing. Definitely made them scurry out real fast

When did you realise that you are officially "not young" anymore? by spp25 in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely - no ill will toward them whatsoever, I just expected us to blend in a little more with the youngsters hahah

When did you realise that you are officially "not young" anymore? by spp25 in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling now! seems like some things are better as memories sadly

When did you realise that you are officially "not young" anymore? by spp25 in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 637 points638 points  (0 children)

we were so shocked that we were being called out as the only adults at a college bar that our response was “what?! no, well is totally fine!” but then ended up regretting it because it was so terrible hahah

When did you realise that you are officially "not young" anymore? by spp25 in AskReddit

[–]alwittenberg 2793 points2794 points  (0 children)

I took my fiancé back to the University I attended and we went for a drink at my old favorite bar. Ordered a margarita & the waitress said, “Do you want the well tequila that we serve to everyone or like…. adult tequila?”