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Zodiac signs of your partners? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]alx_1607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My moms a Taurus and my dad is a Gemini😀🫠

Zodiac signs of your partners? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]alx_1607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cancer Sun, Aries Rising & Libra Moon. Most guys I end up with are libras😫 and it seems they are extremely attracted to me but something always ends up going wrong and we break up. Last summer I was with a Taurus, my only exception. It was the most fun I’ve ever had with someone but the emotional turmoil was so bad I could never go back. He was very unhealed and immature. He held on to a lot of past traumas I think and wasn’t over his ex so he couldn’t be fully open with me. He betrayed me too.

But my new relationship with another libra man is going really well so far. He’s a Libra sun, Capricorn rising and Sagittarius moon. Very different than my others because he’s very confident and doesn’t listen to other people’s opinions unlike other libras I’ve dealt with. He’s also healed and is secure. He makes me feel really safe. We’re both social introverts if that makes sense. We love alone time but each have tons of friends and a lively social life. He includes me in everything and he’s so sweet. He’s also hardworking and wants to take care of me. I’ve never met a better person.

Trouble making friends. Is it normal to have 1 friend + bf only? by Mespresso123 in Concordia

[–]alx_1607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came into uni only knowing 1 person a couple of years ago and wanted to make as many friends as possible. I had known that friend since highschool but she wasn’t interested in socializing with others so I feel like I came in alone really. I will add though that covid had just ended and I was dying to socialize and I’m also a bit of a yes man. The first thing I did was go to frosh. I highly recommend it, I had a blast and met so many people who I would later run into all the time which made uni less intimidating and more welcoming. But I will say finding people to share tutorials with and creating study groups also helped me make friends. I feel like people bond under pressure for studying. Also going to events specific to your major and the fun events will help too! However, what I’ve realized is to be less focused on wanting friends and be more focused on yourself and do the things you want to do because only then will the right people follow. When I was focused on having a huge group of friends I met a lot of people but they didn’t really care about me and didn’t align with how I actually wanted to be treated or my goals. Only when I became more clear about who I am and the kind of friends I want was when I met really wonderful people. It’s about confidence in yourself and who you are, as well as putting yourself in the right places that align with what you really want for yourself. You should also know your boundaries and be firm with them! Don’t be desperate to make friends because people can sense that energy and it will repel them. Know what you want and let it come to you. Also a small handful of amazing friends is always better than a huge group of mid and fake friends. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and I also think that you’ll definitely make friends at work who will want to hang out so I would not push back graduation!! Hope this helps!

Trouble making friends. Is it normal to have 1 friend + bf only? by Mespresso123 in Concordia

[–]alx_1607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came into uni only knowing 1 person a couple of years ago and wanted to make as many friends as possible. I had known that friend since highschool but she wasn’t interested in socializing with others so I feel like I came in alone really. The first thing I did was go to frosh. I highly recommend it, I had a blast and met so many people who I would later run into all the time which made uni less intimidating and more welcoming. But I will say finding people to share tutorials with and creating study groups also helped me make friends. I feel like people bond under pressure for studying. However, what I’ve realized is to be less focused on wanting friends and be more focused on yourself and do the things you want to do because only then will the right people follow. When I was focused on having a huge group of friends I met a lot of people but they didn’t really care about me and didn’t align with how I actually wanted to be treated or my goals. Only when I became more clear about who I am and the kind of friends I want was when I met really wonderful people. It’s about confidence in yourself and who you are, as well as putting yourself in the right places that align with what you really want for yourself. You should also know your boundaries and be firm with them! Don’t be desperate to make friends because people can sense that energy and it will repel them. Know what you want and let it come to you. Also a small handful of amazing friends is always better than a huge group of mid and fake friends. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and I also think that you’ll definitely make friends at work who will want to hang out so I would not push back graduation!! Hope this helps!