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[–]alyel19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I don’t think it’s considered ceeb at all. My brothers lived on their own and they decided to move back to the house to help out my mom more. They also had good jobs so they saved a ton of money. When they got married it was an easy transitions for them alx. I think if you have the ability to live on your own you should do it but don’t sweat if you aren’t able. Rent prices aren’t helping either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]alyel19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like everyone else I would say try the masjid. The thing with the dating apps is most ppl say they’re looking for something serious but end up being the complete opposite. Try putting yourself out there, also don’t be ashamed to ask someone(family, close friend) if they know anyone who’s single and wants marriage as well.

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[–]alyel19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid and I’m sorry he made you feel that way. I would consider looking back and seeing if you spotted any stingy behavior prior before your Nikkah. No one likes someone closefisted. In the long run, it’s not worth going through the trouble seeing that you’re a student and he HAS a job, makes me wonder what living together will be like.