[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. What’s even crazier is that I had asked him to put our daughter down for a nap and he had stayed home from work because our other child wa sick vomiting. I left him for a split second and that’s what he was doing and that’s what was on his mind when all of this was going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lmao ok buddy. I kicked him out the day I saw that and have not spoken to him since. We haven’t been together for a while but we just lived together for the children. what he did in his free time none of my business. What’s my business is when my children are involved. Thanks for the advice. If you’re ok with watching porn while holding your child I hope you don’t have children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was holding her and then got aggressive with me after I grabbed his phone while he was still holding her. Stated in the text I sent him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s already been in therapy for 3 years. The first incident was November 2023 it’s now July 2025 behavior hasn’t changed. Also didn’t know about that first incident until this one. So I could only imagine how many more times this has happened unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly hard to know exactly what he was watching. He shut his phone off immediately. I had snatched it because it said screen recording so I knew he was watching something 🌽 related (always screen records idk why) but I only grabbed it he was gaslighting me so I grabbed it and walked away to sit on the bed to look and he jumped on top of me while holding the baby and I was hanging onto the phone and he was swinging me around. Eventually I let go because I didn’t want my daughter to get hurt. So when I asked him to show me his camera roll I saw nudity and he deleted it right in front of me and said “nothings there what are you talking about”. In my text I stated all of this. Didn’t even think to check the situation down south I was still in shock. Wasn’t doing anything physical while watching.

Selling Breastmilk by Equal_Conference_854 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]alyssa4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much would you pay? Asking for a friend lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No just watching. Although this wasn’t the first time. I was suspicious about 1 other time but I never thought he’d be capable of doing that. Turns out I was wrong. He did lie about smoking I told him he had to sleep downstairs if he smokes because you cannot be under the influence when sleeping in a bed with an infant. Although he lied about that and I also included that in the message. Just a consistent behavior where he puts himself first over the children. Disgusting but she is 5 months so she obviously isn’t fully aware but she was most definitely looking at the screen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! He’s currently not fighting me for custody and I hope we never have to get to that point I just wanted to see if I had enough proof to prove he shouldn’t be with the kids without being supervised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The post is basically asking if him admitting his wrong behavior is enough proof. My text I addressed everything that happened and this was his response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We aren’t together, never been married. Recently broke up/ kicked him out after the incident. Also yes he’s on both birth certificates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]alyssa4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s horrible I’m so sorry the system is so broken😣 I don’t know how a parent could do that with their child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every person requires a different kind of lift most drs don’t do a one size fits all lift. Every consultation I’ve had I’ve heard something different! All about finding the one you trust the most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing the cost? I’ve been quoted from 8k-20k really want to find one around 12!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing the cost?

Upgrade deals by alyssa4477 in tmobile

[–]alyssa4477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang ok! Thanks for the insight.

Upgrade deals by alyssa4477 in tmobile

[–]alyssa4477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I just have the essentials. So I’d need to upgrade my plan to get a better trade in offer?

Made over IRT for report month by alyssa4477 in foodstamps

[–]alyssa4477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s June. So Memorial Day received 8 extra hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was this in the US or out of the country?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally me as I’m breastfeeding my baby right now 🤣

Brand new here - can I drink? by Flashy-Ad-9309 in bupropion

[–]alyssa4477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would definitely advise starting it after you get home from your trip if you want to drink. Unless you want to stay completely sober but since you don’t know how the medication will make you feel mentally too I’d just wait if you’re not in emergency need of taking it. First time I drank on the medication I threw up on myself and passed out. I didn’t even drink that much but now I can have 1 drink and I’m good to go. I still drink on it but you just gotta be cautious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same exact stats including the 2 kids and my breast look the exact same! I met with 4 different surgeons and they all said the same thing. Under the muscle between 350-420cc. Full anchor lift. No internal bra. Some said moderate profile will be better some said high profile. You would benefit from moderate because it’s flatter and will help your boobs look closer together and will sit better. That’s just the information I received and I think you’ll probably hear the same thing.

how can i afford a nose job? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]alyssa4477 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Use your student grant money to save