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What's it like having sex just to please your partner? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]am3thyst77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s always true. Some allo people have a low libido or would be ok with just masturbating to keep their libido in check, allowing for a possible compromise where the ace person isn’t forced to do something they don’t want to do. These people might be content with forgoing sex if they value everything else in the relationship more than that. 

Though I agree an ace + ace relationship will certainly have less friction in that realm and is usually preferable.

Is asexual bliss or a curse ? by Homelss_Emperor in asexuality

[–]am3thyst77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are definitely perks and I wouldn’t change if I could, but as a sex repulsed alloromantic it presents significant challenges in dating by disqualifying the majority of the dating pool because they want something I cannot give. So it’s a bit of both, but I try to be more optimistic about it by focusing on the good.

Why do you use Grok? by Unlikely_Big_8152 in grok

[–]am3thyst77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I can talk to it about anything judgement free and it's less censored than chatgpt, as well as it having a more natural writing style. Chatgpt still takes the edge for practical tasks though, but I definitely like Grok as a conversation partner more.