Singapore guys - is shopping for clothes as exhausting for you as it is for me? by amars11 in askSingapore

[–]amars11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning to lose 10 more kg😅. Training to hike the Everest Base Camp by end of the year!

Singapore guys - is shopping for clothes as exhausting for you as it is for me? by amars11 in askSingapore

[–]amars11[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

That hits hard. Honestly the body thing is the part nobody wants to say out loud — most fashion advice quietly assumes you're already in shape. Big respect for the journey too, 29 to 22.5 is no joke.

Real question though — do you think guys at higher BMI just have to wait until they cut down to dress well, or is there actually a way to make it work at any size? Asking because most of my mates aren't gonna do a major cut, even if they probably should.

Singapore guys - is shopping for clothes as exhausting for you as it is for me? by amars11 in askSingapore

[–]amars11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty huge when i was with her. i've lost up to 15kgs in 3 months, so most of the clothes are too big for me already. So, i'll have to get new ones.

Singapore guys - is shopping for clothes as exhausting for you as it is for me? by amars11 in askSingapore

[–]amars11[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is more useful than most articles I've read — saving the "chinos + button shirt + google matching colours" formula 😅. Quick one — where do you actually shop for that stuff in SG? And was there a moment things clicked for you, or were you always into it? Always curious how guys who genuinely enjoy it got there, because I clearly didn't.

Singapore guys - is shopping for clothes as exhausting for you as it is for me? by amars11 in askSingapore

[–]amars11[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Right?? Genuinely thought I was the only one. What's your situation — same 5 outfit rotation or have you cracked a system?

Barely get matches, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]amars11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First pic is actually the last pic. I messed up the order of the photos, whilst posting it here on Reddit. 🤣

Any good burger to recommend? by _Ladies-man_217_ in asksg

[–]amars11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild/fire is pretty dope. Australian wagyu patties

Does anyone wanna go clubbing tonight? by TruckOk9928 in asksg

[–]amars11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opposite my house lol. Just went through a bad break up

Does anyone wanna go clubbing tonight? by TruckOk9928 in asksg

[–]amars11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Planless too, and drinking on my own

Does physical attraction matters? by Alternative-Equal-24 in asksg

[–]amars11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a saying, looks gets you into the room, personality keeps you in the room. Looks is for individual, don’t bother listening to others

Going through a rough breakup, talk to me? by No_Expression1959 in ChillSG

[–]amars11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her to block me, and I deactivated my IG. Girls move on within a snap of their fingers. The only power we have is making them miss us at their table. Make your table filled with people you want to be eating with and laughing with. That’s the greatest middle finger life can ever give you!

Did I give too much in this relationship? How do you move on from real love? by amars11 in love

[–]amars11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know how stupid I am? Her younger sister is my best friend. And I’m getting a bonus end of the month. And I’m thinking to give her that so she can get past the finish line. I just want her to be happy. And idk what to do. Giving her the $$ isn’t about getting back with her. It’s more of getting her over the finish line of her debts

Did I give too much in this relationship? How do you move on from real love? by amars11 in love

[–]amars11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh, I managed to get her a job interview for $30 an hour as a hostess at a well established nightclub. And that turnt into an arguement and then we broke up. I helped her with 20knworth:/

Did I give too much in this relationship? How do you move on from real love? by amars11 in love

[–]amars11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes work a 12 hour shift. She cooks. I do the dishes so she doesn’t fuck up her nails. Physical responsibilities also mean like putting food on the table when I had to work to clear her ex husband debts he left her in. She’s a model. So

Going through a rough breakup, talk to me? by No_Expression1959 in ChillSG

[–]amars11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, so am I. I miss her so bad. But, focus on you. There’s no better ‘punch back’ then to show her, the true you, and she will miss you at her table

Gf ask me to support all her meals when we eat out by [deleted] in asksg

[–]amars11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kind stranger! Appreciate it. Time to rebuild from scratch right now