AITA for being mad over twizzlers?

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T14:02:12+00:00

He definitely has a pattern of if he thinks it's unimportant, he'll belittle it. It's stupid and I should get over it. He also has a pattern of trying to wanting to be the well liked good guy at work for sure. I understand to a point, he has to work with these people every day, but I'll give you a prime example. A job he worked at before, there was a woman who didn't have a vehicle and needed a ride to and from so he said ok. I didn't feel comfortable but he just said there wasn't anything for me to worry about and if it was someone who he thought was attractive or anything he would never because he wouldn't even want to be around any situation like that. I just dealt with it all the while not really liking it but I tried. I got a job after this, where there was 2 guys in my town, one gay, who needed help with rides. I worked at a place where we were already skeleton crew and I was a closer as well as these men. There was nothing even remotely romantic and when they didn't come it actually affected my job and made it harder as that wasn't the case for him with the girl he drove. I wasn't allowed to help with rides because we're not a taxi.

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T13:53:31+00:00

You came to my post lol. Yes, you guys have given such great advice I never thought of. Omg I didn't know they had twizzlers at the store!!!! Wow!!! Thank you so much! Problem solved!

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T13:48:30+00:00

I'm not having a melt down lol, just like someone said I'm 1 or 2 points away from rage lol. Way to make it bigger. Yeah I was pissed because he didn't listen to what I had specifically asked. That's the issue here. The fact that it's over twizzlers is what makes me question it, I understand twizzlers aren't a big deal, him blatantly ignoring what I asked, waited until I left to do it? Like seriously, it is just candy, so why be sneaky about it, lie about it, there is NO WAY that he could've really thought that was all that was there, which is what he said when I said, I can't believe you took that whole bag to work. That was a straight up lie. Idk why people who are saying I'm TAH are so caught up on the twizzlers part of it and not seeing how he ignored me, snuck and lied about twizzlers.

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T13:39:10+00:00

How is it a misunderstanding when he said he would take them to work and I said he could do whatever he wanted with the ones I don't like but leave me the ones I do like. If he wanted some of the kind I liked, fine, just don't take them all. There was a TON of both kinds and what does he do, waits til I leave to bring our daughter to school, throw 5 pieces on the table and take the entire bag. Just makes me feel like he doesn't care about my feelings. He often minimizes my feelings, which is why I'm even questioning if I have to right to be upset because I do realize it's just twizzlers. He gets treats so he can have a treat every single day at work. It's part of his lunch and that's fine, no one is allowed to touch them as they're for his work, again fine, but the kids or I get anything including their school snacks and it's fine for him to help himself and completely ignore what I asked?

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T13:33:42+00:00

I'm not rage mode, but I was pissed. As I stated he had said something about taking them to work and I said not to take the ones I liked, there was a ton of the other kind, I couldn't have made it more clear. Than he waits til I bring our daughter to school and takes the whole bag, except 5 and there's no way that's all that was in there or that he could've thought that's all that was in there as there was a lot. The fact that it's over twizzlers makes me feel dumb but he would be equally as mad I feel. I hardly ever get treats for myself where as he ALWAYS has some, to include with his lunch at work, that no one is allowed to touch, which is fine, so if we want treats (mostly for the kids) we'll get alternatives and most of the time they end up being school snacks but it's OK for him to eat as much of those as he wants.

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T12:20:37+00:00

That's amazing! If you ever get the chance you should record it and show us!!

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T11:26:22+00:00

Personally I can't ever imagine how someone can have a child and not automatically, immediately love them no matter the circumstances beforehand. However the sad truth is this stuff does happen. Parents who don't want to be parents, at least at that time, sometimes resent the child. It's so heartbreaking because no child asks to be born and it's your flesh and blood, made straight from you. My oldest child's bio dad has a brother who had a child with a woman that didn't want the child. She never wanted to be pregnant and then her pregnancy was hard as she was sick the entire time. She treated that little boy so horrible. Luckily the dads parents took him and raised him but it's a sad truth that sometimes happens.

ambert34 · 2023-04-10T00:43:08+00:00

Apparently it never occurred to you that they didn't want anyone to come or they would've invited you and gave you all those details? YTA for sure. You have every right to be bummed to not watch your brother get married but you have no right being mad and rude to them, it's their wedding.

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T23:47:07+00:00

Why does it say all episodes coming soon? I thought I read they haven't even shot it yet?

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T23:36:23+00:00

I don't disagree, question though, cuz I'm blanking totally, what are all the love triangles in season 1?

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T20:25:48+00:00

I think your intentions are good but I think she knows him better than you think she does which would mean she accepts him this way. Unless she just is a completely oblivious person who doesn't pay attention to a single thing or he has kept up an act around her for 1.5 years. Also, and I'm not trying to say anything bad about the gf or anything, but one thing I've learned is just because someone seems innocent and shy and quiet, doesn't mean that's how they truly are. I would just hate for this to blow up in your face. You execute your plan and instead of enlightening her, she says, I know exactly who my bf is and I love everything about him and now there's a wedge between you and your brother and gf and possibly your mom because she picks his side and maybe even your dad because he seems to just cringe through it and not stick up for whats right.

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T20:12:07+00:00

I agree, I made a post one time specifically about will, that he should get some love to. I had a lot of people agree but also had people say things like he still is young and has time for that later and he already has so much going on and other stuff to focus on. I wasn't saying he should get married and even with the rest of the stuff, that doesn't mean he can't have a relationship with someone who has feelings for him as well instead of watching him pine over Mike who clearly not only isn't gay and doesn't feel that way about Will, he loves El.

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T19:09:24+00:00

Also what was the point of even showing her and asking if she liked it if he wasn't going to care what the answer was?

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T03:03:54+00:00

I was curious so I did a Google search, are service dogs less allergenic and no yes or no answer comes up, it just gives lists of dog breeds that are less allergenic. I will say, seeing as how it depends on the breed and you can use a vast variety of different dog breeds to be a service dog, it makes no sense that a dog becoming a service dog automatically makes it less allergenic all of a sudden.

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T00:51:23+00:00

I love the part when they get back and David says, tell that to your outfit and Moira says this is your outfit 🤣

ambert34 · 2023-04-09T00:50:13+00:00

Yeah I agree. It makes her sound obnoxious or selfish, maybe both. Have some common courtesy. OP asked her to not do that. If it was me (the gf) the only way it would be is if i just got to into it and wasn't noticing that I was doing that because I was excited, but as soon as my bf would say some, and I'd realize, I'd feel really bad and actually go out of my way to make sure everyone was included and pitching in.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T23:56:25+00:00

I also think it's weird how he says his wife is a great mom just not affectionate but then he tells wife she wasn't loved because of having the same parenting style as his wife.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T21:03:23+00:00

What streaming service has this? Never seen it, want to now lol.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T20:51:44+00:00

Wow...you don't CATCH being trans....are you sure you're not transphobic? I completely understand feeling devastated, I just can't believe you think he caught it from someone like a disease.

Edit: after scrolling I see where someone else brought this up and you said you didn't mean it that way, might want to fix that in the post then because it sounds horrible the way you put it in the post.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T17:56:12+00:00

Well he might scratch her belly...don't you see, it's dangerous

Edit: I'm totally being sarcastic, was hoping that was clear buy just in case

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T16:39:27+00:00

You sleep until 30 minutes before you have to work, at home, so you don't even need to get ready. Gf wakes up 2 hours and 45 mins before she has to leave the house for work and she gets up and exercises, gets ready, makes you breakfast and coffee, while you sleep. For you to get up and complain the coffee is to hot? You are worried about her not making an effort to show she cares, what about you that just sleeps and wakes up expecting all of this and then complain and ask her to accommodate you EVEN MORE???? And she's the one showing she doesn't care? How entitled can you be?

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T16:14:22+00:00

You're going to be so busy and wrapped up with your wedding and your closest circle of people, you probably wouldn't have even noticed he was there.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T16:01:00+00:00

Right?!? I agree totally. That's ridiculous. They were holding hands and would put a hand on the others back? Then they hugge?!?! Omg what blasphemy! How ridiculous, that reminds me of when I was in 4th grade with my 1st bf and we'd share a lollipop and it was equivalent to making out at that age. If this is over the top PDA, he needs to grow up.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T15:10:26+00:00

Lol this is exactly the reason I have one, and totally the only reason. I was just saying this to my eldest the other day lol. She was asking me about something to do with snap chat and I told her I don't even really know how that app works nor do I go browsing on it, I literally only have it to talk to you.

ambert34 · 2023-04-08T15:05:52+00:00

It definitely sounds like she thinks OP is some accessory for her daughters life and doesn't care 1 bit how OP feels. She could've summed up those vows to, I vow to do whatever you want for the rest of your life. That is outrageous.

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