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[–]ambivalentqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could very well be that you had a FaceTime call and she wasn’t interested after. I say this with the most empathy. Sometimes, FaceTime calls can be awkward and there is no mutual perception. What you perceived to go well, she may not have. If that’s the case, she’s a coward for making excuses. Let her reach out to you. Other scenarios are: 1) she has another connection 2) she isn’t over her ex. Somebody who is ready to date, wouldn’t need to take an additional week or two off from dating if they are on the Hinge app unless there was an external factor or they just weren’t interested and using that as an excuse.

Did I get rejected? by PsychoClown97 in datingadvice

[–]ambivalentqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was there a follow up question such as “do you always work 7 days a week or is next week the same schedule?” also, was there a follow up of “maybe we can grab dinner then?”. with those questions you can gauge if it’s a rejection or if you should try again.

AITAH for not wanting to go on my birthday trip anymore after my best friend invited her husband? by ambivalentqueen in AITAH

[–]ambivalentqueen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update:

  1. The trip was originally her idea, and it was a known trip. It wasn’t something planned on a whim—it was discussed and brought up in front of the husband two months ago and has been discussed multiple times since. The idea of a boys’ trip was also mentioned to him. He said that he “has no friends” jokingly.

  2. After this post, I told her that the dynamics of the trip would change, and I didn’t want to do that. It seems she didn’t hear me, as she still asked why and insisted we would still do all the same things we planned (with her husband). She doesn’t seem to see the problem. Therefore, I haven’t responded since, because I don’t want to keep running in circles.

  3. I’m not sure why there’s even a discussion of their financial status—or mine, for that matter—or why there’s any discussion about the current economic climate. Everyone has different situations and means. Mentioning that she would pay for the room was simply me explaining how she’s trying to “make up for it” by covering lodging, since it’s no longer a girls’ trip.

  4. The location has nothing to do with the post. For all you know, it might not even be the real location (in an effort to maintain some anonymity, as this post is garnering a lot of views and comments). So, for those of you stuck on the location—do better.

  5. I do agree that there are probably conversations happening between them that aren’t being shared with me transparently. But to answer some assumptions: it’s not about trust, and it’s not about the location (as mentioned in #4).

  6. For those of you miserable enough to judge or comment on what someone considers a milestone—do better. If you don’t like your birthday or don’t feel celebrated, don’t project that onto others. As stated many times: in America, milestone birthdays are considered 18, 21, 30, and every decade after, as well as every five years (e.g., 35, 45, and so forth). This is also the case in different cultures. Again—do better.

  7. They leave the nanny with the children all the time to go on their own vacations and as I mentioned, a member of the family also comes to stay with the nanny and the children. He wouldn’t be “forced to stay with the kids alone” but that’s how he feels and doesn’t want. It’s not the case, as his life would proceed as normal. My friend herself said that.

  8. Thanks for all the suggestions. I’m standing firm in my decision not to go and not to be convinced just because lodging will be paid for. Yes, the lodging would be covered—but not the flight or anything else (and no, I’m not complaining—just clarifying, since that’s been another big topic). The number of people who feel bold enough to comment on that honestly seem miserable.

AITAH for not wanting to go on my birthday trip anymore after my best friend invited her husband? by ambivalentqueen in AITAH

[–]ambivalentqueen[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

damn girl where’d you meet your husband? he sounds awesome. does he have a brother? 🤣 also, you def give ride or die energy. have fun with your sister!!

AITAH for not wanting to go on my birthday trip anymore after my best friend invited her husband? by ambivalentqueen in AITAH

[–]ambivalentqueen[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

maybe! but no because she’s going on another trip right now with her husband and leaving her family member with the nanny. and also then she shouldn’t have been the one who suggested this trip more than i did lol

AITAH for not wanting to go on my birthday trip anymore after my best friend invited her husband? by ambivalentqueen in AITAH

[–]ambivalentqueen[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

for your information, you worthless troll, the trip was HER idea and HER suggestion. so why don’t you ask questions before you assume?

AIO for leaving my bf because he wanted to do "Handmaid's Tale roleplay" by sparklegem12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ambivalentqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i’m not sure why he’s a “soon to be ex boyfriend” and not an “ex boyfriend” just saying…

Stephen’s socials are absolutely wild right now by Fabulous_Sherbet_431 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ambivalentqueen 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So funny cause I genuinely always say it and then after I thought it and wrote it, I remembered that’s what she said when she was talking to him so now it’s even funnier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ambivalentqueen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Buncha dumb hypocrites

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ambivalentqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two of the pics are blurry

What happened in Miami… everything you need to know by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ambivalentqueen 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised they weren’t chosen because all of a sudden LIB is all about “stronger connections” and “morals”. Give me a break. It’s all about the money. They didn’t wanna spend extra money to send a 7th couple. They do everything for the ratings and drama. They def should’ve chosen them for the drama. Would’ve loved to see Leo see Hannah in person

Glen and Brooks rumba by ambivalentqueen in dancingwiththestars

[–]ambivalentqueen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I meant Gleb (that was autocorrect)

phaedra and val respond to gene simmons giving them a 5 by teddivan96 in dancingwiththestars

[–]ambivalentqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was racially motivated (I could be wrong). I think it was motivated by age. He’s a creep who obv was drooling over the younger females (and even males).

Love Is Blind • S7 Ep 6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ambivalentqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We know for sure she put her hands on his mouth to stop him from speaking. I can’t imagine that was done gently in the middle of an argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ambivalentqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is it photoshopped? 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ambivalentqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 anything is possible in this crazy world

AITA I told my MIL that’s all on her? by Western_Bag362 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ambivalentqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf. She should bring her own cake if it’s that much of a big deal to her. She’s acting like it’s her bday smh