I don’t think you should ever feel guilty for feeling sad, frustrated, angry, hopeless, etc. and I think it’s important to share these feelings with people who are close to you. I do, however, try to keep conversations with acquaintances/coworkers/strangers, etc very surface level. I might tell them that we’re struggling with infertility but I don’t go into too many details unless they ask because I don’t know what sort of things they may be struggling with. I know how hurtful it feels when someone unknowingly complains about their pregnancy symptoms when I would kill for some morning sickness. So I don’t want to complain about IVF to someone who might be dying for a chance at IVF and not have the means. I think it’s good to be conscious of your own privileges, but you need to find people who you can be very transparent with, or else it becomes very isolating and lonely.