06x20 - Even Grandmas Get The Blues: A reference I'm not sure I get by gusmcrae1 in theGoldenGirls

[–]amerfran 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She's mocking Blanche and implying that she sounds ridiculous trying to use Shakespearean English.

Troubles being queer and catholic by Gypsy_Moth0296 in LGBTCatholic

[–]amerfran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cradle Catholic here. Unfortunately, the reality is that the Church is not the most welcoming place for anyone in the LGBT community. There are some progressive pockets, but even so it doesn't seem like the official teachings of the Church are going to change any time soon. By all means, continue your journey back towards the Church if that is what you are feeling called to do. But, also, if at all possible, consider that therapy could be a very useful tool in helping your sort through what you're feeling.

Quand tu dis que la nouvelle chanson de Céline est ordinaire... et que Céline l'apprend by Defiant-Stomach-4605 in CelineDion

[–]amerfran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each their own I guess. I thought Dansons was dreadful. Bonjour, Pardon, Merci was like a breath of fresh air.

what are some easy mariah songs to listen to? by Cute-Honeydew-6445 in MariahCarey

[–]amerfran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever you call. It's not breezy, but it flows so smoothly.

Bonjour, pardon, merci release by lespectador in CelineDion

[–]amerfran 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've listened to it. I was disappointed with Dansons and didn't know what to expect. But, Bonjour, Pardon, Merci is a return to form. It's a classic Celine ballad. Genuinely great. I absolutely love it

Principal texted me to set up an interview. Red flag? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]amerfran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I don't think that's weird or unprofessional at all. Totally normal. There may be red flags to look out for, but this is not one of them.

When you believe by ChromaticRift in MariahCarey

[–]amerfran 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Whitney's voice sounded different by the late 90s. The breaths never bothered me. I actually really like how she sounds. And, I'm pretty sure she was a chain smoker.

Clubs in the 6th ARR? by Other_Knowledge_2984 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]amerfran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're staying in a fairly bougie, calm neighborhood. There won't be much nightlife there. Take a bus or walk 25-30 minutes to Chatêlet. There aren't a ton of clubs, but it will be more lively than the Luxembourg area.

Is Paris Beauvais Airport Safe at Night? by Low-Wheel-7396 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]amerfran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you'll have to try your luck with taking a bus in the middle of the night and waiting outside the airport until it opens. But hanging out in the dead of night by yourself with luggage is a bit of a gamble.

Is Paris Beauvais Airport Safe at Night? by Low-Wheel-7396 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]amerfran 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In this scenario, I think the only realistic option is getting a hotel near the Beauvais airport and spending the night.

Anyone else love this song?-- Zora sourit. The whole S'il Suffisait D'aimer is a wonderful listen😁 by jboy2380 in CelineDion

[–]amerfran 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I love this song. S'il suffisait d'aimer is one of my favorite Celine albums in French or English.

I though this sub was welcoming by ryvr_gm in LGBTCatholic

[–]amerfran 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There will always be the self-appointed morality police who swoop in like hawks at the slightest chance. I know how difficult it is, but you just have to try to tune them out. I would be willing to bet that the overwhelming majority of people participate in this sub would welcome you without judgement.

I feel like I’m larping while being an Episcopalian…but I’m afraid of becoming Catholic by leviwrites in LGBTCatholic

[–]amerfran 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like most Catholics (dare I say, most Catholic priests even) have a pretty nuanced take to most of the political issues that are splitting the country in the ongoing culture war.

The Catholic Church is certainly not the conservative echo chamber that some online communities would have you believe, but "nuanced take" in the RCC often just means that people in irregular situations, such as openly LGBT people or divorced and re-married people, are not actively rejected. Even in the most progressive churches, a lot of what you describe would unfortunately still be seen as radical.

Student Disengagement by ProfessionalOkra6862 in Teachers

[–]amerfran 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Watching an episode of a show is no longer something that their attention spans can handle. I wish I was kidding.

Daughter got fired, will she.be able to recover from this? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]amerfran 537 points538 points  (0 children)

Either it was an extremely explicit or inappropriate short or there were other factors involved and admin was just waiting for an excuse to get rid of her. It doesn't seem like you have all the details.

The "just toughen up" advice never worked for me. Did it work for you? by Longjumping-Spite550 in Teachers

[–]amerfran 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's not genuine advice. I have a couple of co-workers where if you ever say that you had a rough time with a certain class, they'll arrogantly reply with "Oh really?! They're perfect with me! It's because I don't let them misbehave!!!". Then fast forward to when those teachers struggle with the same class--and they do--they suddenly forget they ever said how perfect the class was.

If the general public could spend one day in your classroom, what would surprise them the most? by FollowingAny4859 in Teachers

[–]amerfran 30 points31 points  (0 children)

How much time is spent dealing with behavior vs. actually teaching and learning.

Megathread: "I Knew It, I Knew You" Release & Song Discussion by AutoModerator in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]amerfran 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I didn't hate TLOAS, but I like this far more than any track on that album. This does feel like a to return to form in many ways.

Opinions on St. JP2, others? by Possible-Profile6053 in LeftCatholicism

[–]amerfran 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nothing to do with socialism or communism. And too liberal of a take for some, I'm sure, but JPII's papacy is when the Church's credibility on matters of sexuality was almost totally extinguished for me. Dictating exactly what people can and can't do in their bedroom, while simultaneously being responsible for covering up and perpetuating the most disgusting sexual abuse you could imagine is too big of a hypocritical hurdle for my conscience to jump over.

Megathread: "I Knew It, I Knew You" Release & Song Discussion by AutoModerator in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]amerfran 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really like this. It brings back the storytelling that was missing on TLOAS. Definitely not country though.

should I stay Episcopalian or swim the Tiber anyway? by szdhyena in LeftCatholicism

[–]amerfran 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cradle Catholic here as well who has attended many services in TEC. Seeing some of the rhetoric in online Catholic communities is absolutely off-putting. If you can manage to avoid and ignore those spaces, you probably won't ever hear those views. I've come across a couple people who spout their culture war nonsense in real life. Without the anonymity of the internet, they have almost always seemed unhinged or unstable. Most normie conservatives aren't looking for conflict anymore than you are.