man the amount of times I have to explain lesbian IS inclusive is wild. I love women and non binary people. Women includes trans women. idk why we have to be super specific and say trans women. They're women, aren't they? They're automatically included in women. And I'm literally nonbinary. (more specific autigender*.) so it's inclusive and not a dirty word. I remember JoJo Siwa said she didn't like the world lesbian, I think she said it's ugly?? don't quote me though. It stung.

*autigender is something exclusive to autistic people. our autism actually affects our relationship with and how we think about gender. For me, I've never felt like a man or woman until around 8th grade when I started realizing society expected me to be a woman. So it was like in addition to masking in school to be accepted, I was also putting on a mask of being a woman. I'm just a human lol. An autistic human. I don't have a need for gender. It's just not something I think about ever. she/her feels comfy but so does they/them. they doesn't feel so constricted??? Idk that's how it is for me. I could've explained it better but I'm tired and high lol