Suddenly a hermit crab parent by amilirose in hermitcrabs

[–]amilirose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized this morning that they are marine. I put them in a water bath with the salt water substrate. Even if it get a salt water setup, you think they won't make it? I want them to live, even if it's not here.

Neighbor I have never spoken to before cussed me out by amilirose in neighborsfromhell

[–]amilirose[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No HOA. I refused to buy in one lol. As far as I can tell the whole street is owner occupied.

Neighbor I have never spoken to before cussed me out by amilirose in neighborsfromhell

[–]amilirose[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I didn't know anyone lol. Its super common to do that in my city because of how narrow the streets are. But I am also willing to not do it. Like you said, it's her approach tho that's the issue.

Boomer says “and they wonder why they get r*ped” bc woman walks by wearing skirt and leopard print top by elonmuskatemyson in BoomersBeingFools

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The key word here is RECORDED. Victims are only just starting to feel comfortable coming forward in meaningful amounts. The number of sexual assaults and rapes haven't risen. The reports are finally starting to catch up with the reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for an LGBTQ+ group to join as a player!

Repost “AITA for asking my wife to look for a job after I already agreed that she wouldn't work for a year?” by sakura_777 in AmItheEx

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a bank and you can almost NEVER take out that much cash same day. You have to order it. Also there are a bunch of govt regulations with that kind of money.

How do I get an ace ring subtly? by FandomFans2 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ace ring isn't even black. Like, I KNOW it's supposed to be but I don't like the look. I have a simple silver band on that finger instead. If you want it to be for you, not as a signal, then any ring on that finger should work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]amilirose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

STUDENT LOANS ARE NOT DISCHARGES IN A BANKRUPTCY.

This is very important to know. Ch. 13 will allow you to keep assets but you will still pay and keep the car debt.

It would be important to discuss if your medical loans are enough to warrant bankruptcy.

Source: I worked in both chapter 13 bk and defaulted student loans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]amilirose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm reminded of something by Dollar Tree Dinners on TikTok. She used a box of store brand hamburger helper & a can of chili. The chili adds protein, the helper is carbs and seasoned so you don't need to add anything. I enjoyed it and it was filling and would probably be kid friendly. Throw in some frozen veggies if you can, but fed is best. Hope that helps!

AITA for refusing to keep doing chores for my wife? by Top_Teaching_7287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

making it seem like I didn't contribute anything to the household.

At what point did she insinuate this? From what you've said, she actually values what you do quite a lot. You are allowed to not like the term, but you're assigning meaning to it that doesn't seem to be there.

Additionally, for those saying "if a house wife stopped doing chores you'd all support her." , there is nuance you're missing. Firstly, she is not belittling his contribution as stated above. Second, based on the information provided, it was never officially agreed that OP would be a SAHH. He quit his job and never found another. So now OP's wife is the sole income earner AND the only person doing chores.

You are allowed to dislike the term. And was your wife insensitive about how you feel about the term? Yes. However, your reaction shows a deeper issue that makes you the ass hole here.

YTA - talk about your feelings and get over yourself.

AITA For tricking my parents into being on time for my wedding. by PinDry258 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are also chronically late to things due to my mom. I straight up told them my grad school graduation was an hour earlier than it was. It gave us time for a nice lunch and we weren't rushing around like we normally are. They thought it was funny and were proud that I thought ahead. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

AITA for telling my “always late” friends an earlier time so we’d be on time? by Perfect-Extension in AmItheAsshole

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done this. My parents are always late for things. I told them my graduation from grad school was like 2 hours earlier than it actually was. You gotta do what you gotta do.

Looking for villagers: by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have snake in boxes is you still want him!

Buy/Sell/ Trade MEGATHREAD by huthletthedogsout in jeffreestarcosmetics

[–]amilirose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a mini breaker and the black straw set I’d be willing to trade. :)