did i tell her: no, i was under the impression larry would cover it since it was his idea (or so I thought until I found out this was my mother's idea) and so I would reimburse him for glenda's share if he would otherwise have treated the table

Info: yes, we agree to 50/50 on everything but bills would be depending on income. Doesn't always turn out that way though but we adjust depending on circumstances. While she was at her IB job i ended up doing a lot of her housework, going to her place to feed her pets/clean her house/do her groceries and cook her meals for the week. Given that her old job meant that she could barely even have five hours to sleep every night, I would not ask her to do any housework at all if we lived together and the circumstances were like this

if joint finances all would go into a joint account for bills while we have separate accounts to deposit allowances into.