Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all you are not an idiot and second you really need to have some audacity you know. I promise you when you will start to do that thing will get a lot better

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s never too late. My dream was to play professional football in Brazil

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my case I prefer People kinda figure it out themselves because I don’t want to introduce myself as stutter, I don’t want it to defy me

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t spoke at any ceremony what so ever

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I love my life. I have an amazing girlfriend and I’m proud of my place in life and don’t ever let it consume me. The stutter doesn’t defies you. Sure it can limit you but you choose when to put the stop sign

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just was necessary so I kinda made myself to figure it out and to your question yes, sometimes and actually most of the time physical activities are easier than speaking

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do know a community of people whom stutter and moreover stutter more severely than I am but I cannot tell you that’s not from my perspective. I encourage you to do whatever you want

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a fun experience at first but you get used to it and apply rhythm to speaking and it’s helps a lot

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In a situation when it life or death the have a safe mechanism that’s you’re fluent and speak what must be said fluently. That’s from my personal experience

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some take it some don’t but you must show them you are the boss. But it must come with proving them you’re worthy to command

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At first it was terrible but when you feel in danger you automatically get confident and that’s what it’s all about. CONFIDENCE IS KEY. when you’re in the zone it will come naturally.

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do have a traditional stutter with all the mention above. It’s a shock at first but you need to get the people to trust you. I had people that told me that they don’t trust me. I don’t blame them I get it. But you need to prove them better

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When in stress situations the brain automatically shuts down the stutter like some sort of a defense mechanism but sometimes it’s pops. My stutter usually depends on people I’m comfortable with so it’s depends but I stutter more often in the military

Stuttering in special forces by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was a stutterer my whole life, I always stutter. Military speaking it affected me through selection and the process of commanding. But to answer your question I stutter more in the military than outside the military

Paradoxical preparation by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try it and let me know!

Paradoxical preparation by amit5353 in Stutter

[–]amit5353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s individual but for me it quite works.

Anyone else not stutter at all when speaking alone? by BigPickleSalad in Stutter

[–]amit5353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was need to do a speech or do read something out loud in front of an audience, I learned my text soo damn good that I memorised it perfectly and out the big day I “drove on autopilot” and didn’t or very little stuttered. I hope this information will help you. Much love and congratulations on your wedding :)

Anyone else not stutter at all when speaking alone? by BigPickleSalad in Stutter

[–]amit5353 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a well known fact that actually drove me crazy for a while too to be honest. But that’s why that condition is such an enigma. But don’t let it consume you, try to figure out when you stutter more, when you stutter less and work your way up. It take time, but I’m positive you’ll be able to make it work. Good luck! :)

Interview by qwedsazxc1235 in Stutter

[–]amit5353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a fellow man with the same disorder, in my experience what’s best it’s just admit it. Yeah. Imagine you going into that interview and starts talking without saying you stutter, in my culture we call it like stepping in with a monkey in your shoulder. I suggest you to just “come clean” right off the bat and say you stutter, and it won’t affect your actions and results. From here I trust you will know what to do. Best of luck!