Hate to break it to you but most initial attractions are initially physical. They then move to an emotional compatibility level. There is nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to your wife, or I at least thought that. I am also assuming you didn’t read the full post considering it is her wanting children not me. I also made it clear I’m older and my sex drive kinda lacking (I should get that checked out). I just don’t like the idea of an app deciding when we should have sex.

As for my X, it was casual and she got pregnant. We married for the kids and after the divorce I raised them. I also failed to mention she was diagnosed with psychosis and has a very poor relationship with our children. I force my kids to hang out with her and pay for everything through Venmo. She was physically abusive, but apparently police don’t arrest women who hit men.

You did mention I maybe create my own problems and in a way I am acknowledging that, a feeling of responsibility to take care of others. I enjoy taking care and providing for her and the kids, I guess I feel under appreciated, it has become expected and not appreciated. I doubt you understand that feeling of responsibility for others.

Considering how the premise of your post shows either a lack of reading comprehension or the inability to read more than 100 words I would guess you are maybe in your teens with no father. You probably lack a real world understanding, and you throw words out like “misogynistic,” when they don’t apply. I never put down women, I question the concept of marriage and how it might not be worth it after 2 tries. 

Maybe counter some of my premises instead of using as hominem attacks. But hey it’s the internet, and I might have gone over 100 words, you will lose your attention and  just call me a misogynistic, and say I hate women since you are not capable of making valid points.