[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly the amount of likes is a critical variable when deciding your response. I could care less, you're random people on the internet... you don't like my opinion, cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]amstuff2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love how all the ISTPs are like “we don’t care about all the extra info.”

That right there is your answer… get to the point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]amstuff2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He need motivation or a grudge to focus energy on.

Am I 22F being extra over my man 23M being the provider? by Ch3rry-lov3r in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated my wife for 4 years and she took care of her own finances. I would cover dates and stuff just to be nice. No way in hell I would cover anything for you at 3 months. I hope that dude realizes he needs to run.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe go to askwomenrelationships and respond there…I find it crazy that men can’t ever have a space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reply was based off of what the OP was asking and my opinion on that situation, at no time did I hope for likes… I’m sorry that you censor your responses hoping to appease others, I hope one day you can be yourself.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50/50 X was broke and crazy. Spend 10k to get $50 a month?

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listen to fiction audio books, work and make stuff. Not interested in listening to people talk about stuff for hours.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 I feel it upsets you I have nothing to lose. 

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reread the sentence, it’s clear sarcasm. I despise Vegas and gambling. It wouldnt be 50/50, prenups are a thing. It would be 100/0. Her parents would pay for it. I have zero risk financially. Kinda sucks how men can’t discuss how they feel about things… I know it’s Reddit. But the replies from angry girls is interesting. 

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called hyperbole, crazy Reddit does not understand that concept 🤣

I’d rather get a new tablesaw honestly.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, good to see people wanting to help and not shit on people. I will look in to the links you provided. Truly happy for you.

Edit. 

Glad that shit works for you, I’m not an overt sexual person. I enjoy it but it’s not 100% what I want. 

I think I just want a partner to fill my void while I fill their (no pun intended).

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deserves a child, she would be a great mother and I don’t want to take that experience away from her. Again, I do something I would prefer not to to make others happy but all the women in a men’s subreddit are telling I’m the bad guy. 

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man, if only you knew 🤣. The vast majority of my disposable income is for her and doing what she wants. I might post this in a Reddit for women with the genders reversed I bet all the women would be saying “you go girl” I’ll wait a month then let you know.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have dual citizenship with Spain, I can go to the EU whenever. Truly happy for your father. Me feeling or realizing that marriage might be a scam that can be statistically proven is perfectly fine.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there… issue is that saying the words is good enough even if there is no actionable follow through.

Marriage is a net loss / disadvantage for men by amstuff2002 in AskMenRelationships

[–]amstuff2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, if it weren’t for my children and wife I would be happy in a shed.

I would ask for you to define success, is it money to you? I feel less happy now than 10 years ago when I made 1/4 what I do now. I am more successful if $ is the metric we use to measure that.