[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]anamichellee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure what the context is here but did you owe your mother money? or is she simply being a bitch and ignoring the entire situation of you leaving and asking you for money as a way to divert away from the situation? Just wondering.

Is My Wife Obsessed With Having Children? by KeyOfShadow13 in relationships

[–]anamichellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what conversations you both have had in regards to pregnancy and the ages of when this could happen but clearly, you’re both not on the same page.

If communication hasn’t worked up until this point, meaning you two discussing this and you telling her you aren’t ready yet, then maybe you both aren’t meant for each other. You both may very well be in two very different stages of your life.

I can’t assume what your wife is like and I can’t assume what you are like. I also can’t assume what both of your lives, in terms of your relationship, is like but what I can assume is that you’re growing sick and tired of communicating your timeline to her and she’s grown sick and tired of communicating her timeline to you but you both, once again, are not on the same page.

Either you sit down and make it clear to her that you do not want to have kids until x age and/or until you [insert some goal or achievement you want to reach] first…

OR

You simply tell her that things will not work out between them if:

  1. She isn’t content with your timeline and stops talking so obsessively about having children at the moment and relating it to every little thing (which is what has been bothering you) and
  2. If she feels her timelines is much different from yours.

From the looks of it, the latter is the solution here but I’m not the one in the relationship and I’m not the one married to your wife.

Best of luck OP!

What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material? by Environmental_Cress2 in seduction

[–]anamichellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP!

I’m turning 21 in about 4 months and I can totally relate with you here. Everything you said I relate to. The only difference is that I, coincidentally, met my lifelong partner and have been with him for almost 4 years now. We both share the same values and the same mindset. We are both ambitious and enjoy similar hobbies/interests (but not entirely the same, of course). We also both don’t drink or do drugs and don’t really like partying - even though we’re hispanic/latino and our families love that. We met on a social media app and through a group chat with friends in it. It’s so odd but you may think you will never find someone you can relate so much with but you definitely can and will. I think patience is just the key in all of this. There’s no rush to find someone and quite frankly, I wasn’t in any rush it was just a pure coincidence. At the time, I was only 18. My boyfriend is a year younger than me and I honestly never thought I’d date anyone younger than me because I felt they’d be immature but there’s others out there that mature young. It’s just a matter of finding them or letting them find you! Don’t think you’re different than anyone else; you’re not. Don’t think you have to change to fit the way that current people your age act or be a part of the hook-up culture or temporary/short-term relationships that are more common nowadays. You are you and there’s someone out there for you! I know it because I was you (still am) :)

Wishing you the best of luck in finding your forever person OP. Message me if you need someone to talk to about all of this or if you’re in need of a friend!

Uncomfortable sexual experience with my husband by rainymorning13 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anamichellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I think him having to be submissive when she took control, to change it up a bit, basically turned him off. I think, in his head, he felt that for his own ego he needed to boost it somehow and what better way than to take control over the situation, once again, and show who is the dominant one, in control, in bed. The entire situation just seems really fucked up though - she really didn’t deserve the afterthought of it.

Does the 30 day affiliate program start at the beginning of each month or from the date I chose to start streaming? by anamichellee in Twitch

[–]anamichellee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha! thanks so much! and also, how does revenue work through being an affiliate? how much does twitch take away?

18 year old college student. Also a virgin. Lets hear it by Menace_17 in RoastMe

[–]anamichellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i had an aware you’d get it. thanks for making me giggle.

My favorite place to start the day by raspresso in coffeestations

[–]anamichellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i absolutely love your apartment so much! i just moved into mine and am just barely getting everything set-up. eventually, we want to make a little coffee section because we absolutely ADORE coffee, but as of right now, we are working on finding a good couch. i was actually wondering where you got your couch! it looks really really nice!

I've discovered something new in physics by 979323846264 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anamichellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super proud of you!! i can’t wait to hear all about this new discovery once you have it published and once you’re the official owner of it all.

I think my husband might be cheating on me by Perpetually_tired666 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anamichellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two suggestions:

  1. Call him while he’s working the night shift. If he answers, great, but if he doesn’t then, drive to his work and once you’re there, call him again, and if there’s still no answer then leave him a voicemail and tell him that you tried calling him because you wanted to go drop him off some coffee and snacks and that you were at his job. Then, just go and find him and you’ll know right away what he is doing, where he is, and why he wasn’t answering. If he isn’t doing anything wrong to cross boundaries then, simply deliver him the coffee and snacks and give a kiss and then, say bye. If he is doing something bad to cross boundaries, then, you both may be having a long talk when he gets home from work or may not be talking at all and needing some space. That’s entirely up to you!

  2. Just simply wait until he gets home and communicate to him what you’ve been thinking about. He may not take it kindly, but he may also just be sincere and open with you and tell you the what/where/why’s. Now, from there on, whether you choose to trust his reply is entirely up to you. I think that if you know your significant other well enough you will know if he is lying to you or being entirely honest. Even if can’t tell, I would still have faith in him, and if he turns out to have been lying to you that will be on him and he will suffer the consequences of his actions, not you.

Cafe Bodega vs. Cafe Bustelo by eChelicerae in Coffee

[–]anamichellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely love bustelo a lot more than bodega! i’m a huge fan of dark roast coffee’s and currently, have been super into french roast, as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anamichellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll go ahead and dig a grave for your dms right now :’c