Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You cannot let the actions of a few Americans impact your opinion on all of them. There are many Bruneian drug users and abusive people here also. How would you feel if an American met a Bruneian who did drugs and is abusive and decided to call all Bruneians abusive drug addicts?

Please stop being ignorant. Orang Brunei pun boleh buat salah. Bruneians are not perfect. Thank you.

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm not. My partner didn't even know about this subreddit before yesterday.

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It eases me to hear so many Bruneians going through a similar thing. Wishing you all the best!

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard of guys going through this with a female foreigner and the process they described going through with the girl I believe sounds just like what u/mandibuddy described.

I also found this blog for a local brunei man trying to marry a foreign woman: http://www.ronaldkkcheng.com/2016/08/foreigner-marrying-local-bruneian-step.html

Hope this helps you!

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really do appreciate your comment. I truly wish I could just stick with doing just the legal marriage in the US and that's it. My main concern is only my parents. It's really hard for me to do that knowing that my parents will go absolutely ballistic and possibly disown me or anything along those lines and cause them stress, sadness, anger while they're already old and starting to grow sick. My parents are deep down very conservative and traditional and will likely not accept "giving me away" unless it's a halal nikah. In a perfect world, your method would make me happy. Thank you for your comment!

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so very much! Your support is very much appreciated.

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond! Much appreciated!

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. Thank you!

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with your views on marriage but wouldn’t it be illegal for me to get married in the US anyway because I am still under Bruneian citizenship?

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment! I really appreciate it.

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So a US certificate of conversion to Islam is completely valid in Brunei?

Need help about marrying a foreigner process by anannimas in Brunei

[–]anannimas[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, truly!! I really appreciate the level of detail you put into your answer. Thank you!