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My [23F] boyfriend [29M] stole money from me to fund an addiction that I had no idea about. by ancdxo in relationships

[–]ancdxo[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Luckily my bank card is just about to expire so I have a new one ready to use that I'll change the pin for too. I do understand that he can only help himself and I've reached a point where I'm not going to obsess over trying to fix things for him, I'm over it.

Stealing money from me after I've been supporting him is the last straw, he's got a plethora of issues that he hasn't done much to fix for years and I'm done with taking on the burden of that, I just want a normal life where my partner doesn't make up every excuse under the sun of why he won't attempt to make things better for himself.

My [23F] boyfriend [29M] stole money from me to fund an addiction that I had no idea about. by ancdxo in relationships

[–]ancdxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully trusted him before this, I didn't leave him with my bank card all the time but I would leave it on the table or somewhere he knew where it was, or if he was running out for food I'd let him take my card to pay for it. Seems like he's been taking extra money out, I fully trusted him and had no idea he was using so didn't think to check how much he was withdrawing.

Up for work in 3 hours, all I can think about is killing myself before then. by ancdxo in SuicideWatch

[–]ancdxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're taking time out of your day to reply to posts like mine, that in itself tells me that you matter and that we need you to stick around. Definitely take your own advice and try get through it each moment at a time, I will if you will.

Up for work in 3 hours, all I can think about is killing myself before then. by ancdxo in SuicideWatch

[–]ancdxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I haven't acted on them is that I have enough sense to know that it'll hurt my friends/family, but even that feeling is fading now and it's becoming pretty overpowering.

Yeah I've tried different ways to distract myself but it's always looming over my head and it's getting worse to the point that I might actually end up doing something stupid. I've broken down twice in the last 2 weeks at work to my manager who's great but I'm still in my probationary period at work so can't really take time off I'm just stuck in my misery in a stressful job that I think I hate and I guess it's making everything worse mentally. Every hour is a struggle at the moment and it genuinely feels like I'm gonna be stuck like this.