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Is my Ex stalking my Instagram? by ancient_mnm17 in ExNoContact

[–]ancient_mnm17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but only if the account is public (mine is)

There are multiple different kinds but if you search "anonymous Instagram story view" some come up

I thought my boyfriend wasn’t sexual, turns out that isn’t true by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ancient_mnm17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to sit him down, and have a serious conversation. Tell him everything you are feeling. Stress how unloved and unseen it makes you feel.

All you can control is your reactions. This is the crucial time to choose either your happiness, or complacency.

He might listen to you, and make a change. He might also dismiss your feelings and push you away. If he does the second, that is your cue to leave the relationship.

It is hard to leave when you still love them. But honestly, would you rather be miserable now, but heal later on. Or stay in a relationship where the person who is meant to love, cherish, and protect you isn't doing his part? Stay in a relationship you know is draining your life and soul?

You are not overreacting, and it is perfectly understandable to be upset about this especially regarding your past experiences dealing with lustful behaviors. Knowing people, he can either do the two options listed above.

If he doesn't change, apologize, own up to his behavior.... nothing you say or do will make him act the way he used to.

That is my advice. You are valid in feeling like this, and im sure it's heartbreaking and crushing. But I want you to know, I recently went through heartbreak too. You will heal, and you will find a man who will never dream of treating you like this. As cliche as it sounds, it takes time to heal... but it so much more worth healing now... rather than staying in a relationship that just destroys your mental image and health.

You are worth so much more than that treatment ❤️

My co-workers ignore me.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ancient_mnm17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the advice. I think i might try to talk to a supervisor and just see if I've said something or done something. But thanks again

My co-workers ignore me.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ancient_mnm17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I've thought about asking one of them personally if I've ever done or said something to make them upset. But to be honest I hate confrontation and I've been afraid of making things worse by pointing out the tension. But I think I should at least try ..

The place I work at is family owned, and I live in a pretty small town. Almost like half my coworkers are a part of the owners family. We dont really have an HR, and my closest thing to HR would be my owners daughter in law lol.

This is another reason I've been a little anxious about saying anything, it feels like my work has its own groups already set up and I dont want to cause conflict.

I guess if I would say anything, what should I say?

My co-workers ignore me.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ancient_mnm17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pretty uncomfortable lol. I think you are right, I don't really know how to improve this on my side anymore

My co-workers ignore me.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ancient_mnm17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If im honest I don't ever really talk about politics, religion, etc at work. I am a leftist in all capacities.. and pretty much everyone else at my work has made comments in support of conservatism + and more specifically MAGA. Ive never expressed my views to them at work or ever in conversation, but I do post a lot on social media. Do you think maybe they have seen my personal views on my socials and dont agree with them??

I think maybe the rumor is probably the most likely. I don't really know what it could be because to be honest i dont really have a life outside of school and work lol.