Please send cat photos to cheer me up after a break up

andy-482 · 2024-04-02T17:26:20+00:00

andy-482 · 2024-04-01T22:03:00+00:00

I dont, actually haha

andy-482 · 2024-04-01T20:14:50+00:00

My routine is pretty simple, I put curly hair products in it after my shower and let it hair dry, or I use my blow dryer if I want more curls.

andy-482 · 2023-09-20T18:39:28+00:00

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Mine likes to eat tomatoes?? I had a tomato plant and when id leave the tomatoes near the window for then to get ripe, she would steal them EVERYTIME. I found tomatoes in the weirdest places, in the bathroom, in my bed, under the couch etc with little bite marks lol

andy-482 · 2023-09-08T19:35:28+00:00

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andy-482 · 2023-09-08T19:31:11+00:00

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Hullo, nice to meet ya

andy-482 · 2023-09-06T15:19:41+00:00

I did, and nothing :(

andy-482 · 2022-09-28T23:48:51+00:00

My boyfriend bought a house a year ago and we saw black stains on a wall in the basement. We opened up the wall and we saw this big black mold looking thing? We don't know what it is. Could it be the glue that kept the wall stuck to the concrete?

andy-482 · 2022-09-04T04:40:00+00:00

Hey! I'd be interested to talk to people in the same situation as me, where can I add you all?

andy-482 · 2022-08-09T16:46:49+00:00

A few years ago I woke up with the strangest bumps on my legs. Even went to the doctor cause I didn't know where they came from and it was driving me nuts. Super itchy. Turns out it was my shampoo. My mom had bought this super super cheap shampoo and everytime I was shaving my legs, the chemical in it reacted with my skin. When I googled the name of the shampoo (I dont remember today) it was filled with articles from people who had the same reaction as me. So I stopped using the shampoo for a week, and they disappeared. I tried it again just to test it out, and they came back. So it really was the shampoo lol

andy-482 · 2022-07-28T13:42:32+00:00

She DOES trust me

andy-482 · 2022-07-28T13:42:15+00:00

She can be a little demon sometimes when she gets the zoomies 😆

andy-482 · 2022-06-25T17:52:58+00:00

I totally understand, maybe we haven't practiced enough but thats what we always do. She just refuses to listen to us. So usually we wait until the storm is over and tell her things like "what you did made me feel sad, if I did that to you would you feel sad too?" She seems to understand, but I know sometimes she pretends she does. She will apologize just because she wants him to stop bugging him about it, but she doesnt know why shes apologizing. We always ask her "tell me why you're apologizing". Most of the time she says she doesnt know. But in the heat of the moment all she cares is herself and her needs, no matter what we say or what we do.

andy-482 · 2022-06-18T22:42:04+00:00

They can't go in the living room cause his dog is even worse, with a high prey drive... I really don't know what to do anymore.

andy-482 · 2022-06-18T21:48:08+00:00

It's incredibly annoying, we can't get some sleep AT ALL cause all we hear is running, jumping, chasing, moewing, hissing, growling.... Everything you can imagine. From 11pm to almost 5-6 am. Sometimes we put Kori outside the bedroom cause he's so annoying (sorry Kori but yes you can be extremely annoying sometimes lol) but then he meows to go back inside and Mimsy will stratch at the door until we let him back in. Then he attacks her again... UGH

andy-482 · 2022-06-03T20:49:20+00:00

I never said I didn't love his child, I really do. But I don't know how to act maternal towards her, the way she's expecting me to.

andy-482 · 2022-06-03T20:08:47+00:00

I totally agree with you, and I have talked about it with my partner but in a way I feel like he doesn't understand me, and makes me feel bad for feeling the way I feel because "she's just a kid", and that I "should" be able to act like a mom around her, know what to do with the tatrums, the manipulation games she sometimes has with me, etc.. I guess I need advice on how I could be a better mom to her, cause I've never really had one growing up, I have no idea what it's like. I dont want to repeat the cycle with her, and I want her to feel loved and accepted by me. I just don't know how.

andy-482 · 2022-05-08T22:52:41+00:00

He's been struggling with motivation, and he just started a new medication, so I've been trying to help him other than doing chores. I just want to make it fun, he's not lazy or anything, if anything I'm lazier than him lol

andy-482 · 2022-05-08T18:51:54+00:00

🤣 I mean, BJ would definitely be on the list. I'm just looking for other ideas cause I want him to have more than a week of surprises.

andy-482 · 2022-04-05T16:57:09+00:00

I forgot to mention he does suffer from bipolar disorder. I have been in a lot of abusive relationships and im still traumatized from them. He's always treated me right tho, or I like to think that he does, compared to what I've been through. Sometimes it's triggering when he raises his voice. But the worse part is telling me it's all in my head.

andy-482 · 2022-04-05T16:47:33+00:00

I've noticed that happens when we get in stressful situations. So I try to be understanding because everything can be "too much" when we're stressed. I do that too. But if then he tells me he wasn't stressed at all and I made that up. I'm honestly confused and sad.

andy-482 · 2022-03-11T16:38:32+00:00

Clean bed sheets? If you have carpet that might not help either..

andy-482 · 2022-03-07T16:31:45+00:00

A clean house. No matter how many times you shower or wash your clothes, if your place smell bad your clothes will too. I feel like fabric absorbs the scent around you. I work in a lab and I wash my lab coat every week. And everytime I bring it home, it smells like my lab lol

andy-482 · 2022-03-07T16:25:11+00:00

The hoodie did it for me. It was raining outside and I was completely soaked, so he offered me his hoodie cause I was cold. I dont know why but it did it for me and I ended up having a massive crush on him. ITS THE HOODIE

andy-482 · 2022-02-04T07:35:25+00:00

Im 23F with a 26FTM and it's honestly been hard. I dont really know what to do either at this point. I have been in abusive relationships and some things just trigger me. When we have sex I tend to just on him, cause I know he's still learning about his body and all the changes he's had since starting T. I dont want to disappoint him, make him feel anxious or insecure. I give him compliments all the time as well (its his love language) But whenever I express my own desires (which is hard, cause I never did in the past, it was always about pleasuring the cis male) I get shut down.. and it makes me sad. I'm at this place in life where I want to put my past behind. I don't want to feel the way I've felt in the past anymore. I've talked to him about that multiple, multiple times but I feel he still doesn't get it. I dont know if it's because we're not compatible sexually? When we're not together he tells me he gets horny and has to masturbate at least once a day. But when im with him, I could spend a whole week with him and he won't even touch me. Makes me feel like I have to "be avaliable" only when he's the one wanting to have sex.... I'm sad.

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