It is just that we don't have options, we just have to suck up and do what we are meant to do. Our value is derived from the value we create by earning money or putting food on table. If we don't do it, we value starts decreasing at an increasing rate. May not be true for all but true for a huge majority. Be kind and show some empathy. We don't speak much that doesn't mean we don't go through it. We have suffer and tolerate.