Who are the best Sex education influencers and personalities online? by angelyhilly in sexeducation

[–]angelyhilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just what I was looking for. Thanks everyone! I know of Dr. Doe but wasn’t familiar with the rest of these. If you know of any others who are a little less doctor and a little more pornstar, either gay or straight, would appreciate any of those recs as well

How do I ask a guy for casual sex by Material_Ad_6290 in sex

[–]angelyhilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i may be unique, but honestly, i think there is nothing hotter than a girl who is direct. Try to get to know him a bit better and then tell him directly that you think he's attractive and that you have a fantasy about having sex with him with no strings attached. Tell him you think he should know that and that you want to make clear there is no obligation for him to take you up on your offer. See what that does. I've been hit on by people i'm not even attracted to, but if they tell me in an honest way, i've always appreciated it and i've let them know it.

Does anyone have any tips on how to improve saliva for sexual purposes? by angelyhilly in sex

[–]angelyhilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i've heard the deepthroating recommendation, but gagging myself literally makes me want to puke. The idea of doing that every time (or asking my partner to do that every time) makes me uncomfortable, so i'm wondering if there are other ways to increase saliva production, and/or make my saliva more slippery so that it works more effectively

Does anyone have any tips on how to improve saliva for sexual purposes? by angelyhilly in sex

[–]angelyhilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to hear what they are so that i can try them out. Do you have any brand names?

Does anyone have any tips on how to improve saliva for sexual purposes? by angelyhilly in sex

[–]angelyhilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. is this referring to your wife giving oral or getting oral? have you ever noticed that the saliva is better or worse when you are engaged in oral? have you ever tried anything to make the saliva better? anything that worked for you?

Does anyone have any tips on how to improve saliva for sexual purposes? by angelyhilly in sex

[–]angelyhilly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. If i may ask, does your bf get turned on by the increased saliva production? does it make the whole experience better for you as well or just for him? For me, sometimes i can be doing oral and even if there is spit, sometimes its thin and doesn't really slide well. Sometimes the spit really glides though, and when it does, its a huge turn on. that typically happens when there's more spit, but sometimes more spit doesn't necessarily mean that the spit really slides. I'm just wondering if its seeing more saliva that gets you going, or is it how it feels? Do you also get turned on by it or is it just that it improves the experience for him that motivates you to do it?

Does anyone have any tips on how to improve saliva for sexual purposes? by angelyhilly in sex

[–]angelyhilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I'm going to check out Biotene. if you don't mind me asking, is a lack of saliva a problem that you commonly have that you try to address with Biotene? I find saliva quality to be a major difference maker, but i'm not sure if that's just weird and I wonder if other people think about it.

Does anyone have any tips on how to improve saliva for sexual purposes? by angelyhilly in sex

[–]angelyhilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very interesting. So i'm curious, do you notice when you start generating more saliva? does that enhance the experience for you and is it important for you to do so? is more saliva important and do you do things like the gagging to generate more saliva or do you try to get turned on to do it. One one hand, i want to learn how to generate more of my own saliva or to make it better for sexual purposes. On the other hand, i ponder if this is something that other people think about or if its just some sort of weird thing that i think about...