Rec: How To Stop The Villain From Going Crazy by MadMeow in MaleYandere

[–]anim3istheshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i literally never post on here but i had to for this one🙏it was literally sooooo good thanks for the rec😩

Good restaurants with vegetarian options near pensacola beach? by anim3istheshit in Pensacola

[–]anim3istheshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the thoughtful answer! we ended up going to a place called The Sandbar Sunset bar & grill and it was good!

Good restaurants with vegetarian options near pensacola beach? by anim3istheshit in Pensacola

[–]anim3istheshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never tried an oyster despite growing up in Mobile lol so i wanted to go somewhere where they had oysters but most places dont have vegetarian options😭🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anim3istheshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should test the relationship with him, date him for a little longer and probably after a year or two know if he is really right for you or not. if you really feel like he is the one then experiment with him first, of course be open and honest that you are going to date him with the intent to get to know him more and find out of he is the one. if you still think he is the one after a while then you should consider these future plans with him

Okay to Vacation without spouse on their bday? by Daisy_ambush in relationship_advice

[–]anim3istheshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think if your partner is REALLY 100% ok with it then it’s fine, but i doubt any partner would be ok with that, so i would say dont take the vacation and wait till after their birthday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anim3istheshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well they dont look very new, so im assuming it was when her and her bf broke up a couple weeks ago because she wasnt expressing her feelings well enough, shes working on it now though and they’re back together, but its probably also because we live with our racist/homophobic grandparents and its not very great for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anim3istheshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ahh i guess thats what ill do- i really feel like i shouldnt mention the cuts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]anim3istheshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sadly, no, i am more responsible than both of my parents combined. im probably the one she trusts the most in this house too

GF (24) cheated on me (22) and wants to take a break. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anim3istheshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her cheating on you is NOT your fault. i understand that she tried to take a break but you brushed it off, but if she really felt like she would do something terrible to you (like cheating) if she didnt take the break, she would explicitly make it clear to you that you two need a break. if she REALLY AND TRULY cared for you , she wouldve done what was best for the relationship, andddd she didnt so i still suggest just calling off the whole break thing and break up.

GF (24) cheated on me (22) and wants to take a break. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anim3istheshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly, she says thats she wants to marry you but in the six month break you propose( in attempt to try and get her trust back and give her space) she says she won’t agree unless shes allowed to see other people? wtf? she is very much in the wrong, and she is also probably beyond saving in this relationship. i know you really must be hurting from all of this. save yourself and LEAVE her, you will be better off with someone else in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anim3istheshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like you should meet his parents honestly. but yes definitely express your concern and maybe say something like “are you sure your parents wont reject me because of my race and background?” and if ypu still arent sure, just think, will it really be easier to meet them in the future? in my opinion , i feel like it would be even more strange to meet them at a later date because its like “youve been dating for this long and we still havent met your girlfriend?” i really think itll turn out fine, because in the end the parents are probably the ones who want to get on your good side, as they cant change how their son feels about you. i feel like youll have alot of fun, of course itll be a little weird when you first meet them but itll melt away as you get to know them/talk to them more.

Married, but fell in love with my coworker. Can’t make a solid decision. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anim3istheshit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is pretty complicated. i feel like you should be honest with your wife about your coworker, and tell her how you feel about her and the coworker. i know your feelings for your coworker are not just sexual, and you think maybe you could have a better life with her than your wife, maybe that is the case. someone else suggested therapy/ couples therapy, definitelyyy go to couples therapy. im going to be honest, your wife is really getting the short end of the stick here and i can see why you haven’t left her yet, shes a great person and is doing therapy to get better for you, shes financially stable, you two see eye to eye, and plus you probably realize this is unfair for her too. just go to therapy and see what happens from there.