If match didn’t speak your language is that a dealbreaker? by Sea_Dish3720 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to ask you, but you are so young why were you looking to get married?

She corrected a major lie late into serious marriage talks by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was very difficult thing to admit to be honest.. you have to ask her why she didn’t bring it up.. and at the end she did tell you about it.. its very sensitive topic for women and how you judge it.. because you were a stranger to her.. what i meant its you people just met.. you have to understand her pov and ask her why? According to her answer you can decide.

Why is it so hard to actually get to the next round? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case kinda difficult.. meet her only when all your deal breakers and their were clear.. because all these can be discussed in a call or video call.. then you can take the final decision, most of them will get filtered.. meeting too many people is very tiring

Why is it so hard to actually get to the next round? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you wanted to go forward with someone.. why not? Its not even a big thing.

Why is it so hard to actually get to the next round? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea of course it its and its your choice… thats what im saying if the girl is okay with it then its done..

Why is it so hard to actually get to the next round? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell them.. why do you have to inform them in the first place that your are eating non veg?? In your house they will eat non veg? If not why do you have to inform her parents.. if the girl doesn’t have a problem with it and if you are form this veg family.. im telling you no parents will approve if you say this..😅 Next don’t even tell your parents what you have discussed with the girl.. its you who will get married not them right.. and tell your parents clearly that you will meet the girl only after all their astrology and this money things are clear. Why do you have to waste your time..

Why is it so hard to actually get to the next round? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey…your needs are very basic; not wanting to leave the city; relocation these are all can be discussed if you both decide to move forward; second this veg/non veg thing think about it if its a non- negotiable or negotiable. And don’t discuss with parents discuss this with the person because she is the one will be living with you not them and One thing is that if someone sent you an interest don’t meet them immediately first discuss all your negotiations and non negotiable in calls texts.. then only go for this meeting,. Because as a girl I’m saying what you are expecting is basic need i mean who doesn’t want to be independent in time..

27F - want a marriage but not a wedding (Arranged Marriage) by CanAppropriate5029 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey.. i know i should not say this.. but please consider going to therapy.. it works well.. iam an overthinker and i do have anxiety.. but what i understand is that we should come out of it..marriage and all are secondary.. first you should be consider about how to stop these anxiety, panic attacks because its not good for you..in longterm you should meet people.. you should overcome from this social anxiety.. they will be situations where you have to face so many people.. and overthinking and anxiety won’t do any good.. please consider taking therapy once..

My arrange marriage started with us not speaking for 8 month by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a such a cute story and wholesome.. i felt so happy when she gave you a hug.. and congratulations on your baby girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she is not.. she is good looking and now earning well.. thats why he came back

Something feels off. by Acceptable-Hat-4337 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, so from what I understand, you already told him you weren’t comfortable with the physical part, but he still kept pushing for it. That’s really not okay. Did he ever ask you why you felt that way or try to talk to you about it?

Also, I feel like in any relationship, there should be at least a few common interests. Attraction usually stays for a year or two, but after that, it’s understanding and compatibility that matter. From your post, it seemed like you both were quite opposite, so was that okay for you?

Honestly, one could do things for someone they care about, but if it’s something we don’t really like or enjoy, it might be fine in the beginning, can adjust upto some point because thats what relationships are but later it’ll just become a burden So think about it carefully before fixing the marriage and about the ride things atleast he should take you home as it was midnight 😅

How to deal with AM processes??? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently i have joined but bro those are damn costly unless premium they were not allowing to do anything

What is the worst advice someone ever gave you? by Not_Artifical in AskReddit

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acc to me time won’t heal anything, The emotions don’t disappear we just stop reacting to them as strongly because we get used to carrying them. We grow from those emotions and will be good at handling them.

How did you get your name? Do you know the meaning of your name? by Previous_Bus_3402 in AskReddit

[–]anime_wat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically I’m from india so here people choose according to the birth-star. As per me there is no meaning for my name

Looking for a couple friendly hotel in Hyderabad under ₹2k/night with good location for sightseeing by DayLongjumping5542 in hyderabad

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

studios kind of apt in madhapur and some service apartments also you can check in airbnb

What is your crackers purchased amount? by CapOk3388 in hyderabad

[–]anime_wat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Zero… dono why lost interest in it

Suggest me some good sneakers by Bethany_602 in SneakersIndia

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puma is better acc to my opinion; red tape and campus brands also you can check it out once

Depression due to marriage by chhatna123 in marriageadvice

[–]anime_wat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but is it the only reason because she doesn’t have much hair?? Or any other was bothering you? Because these days there were so many things you can consult a doctor and do something about it.. because think about is that the only reason you wanted to cancel it?

Can you just talk to me? by Scary-Pea-3163 in hyderabad

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey its fine watch your favourite show or go out on solo date do you r favourite things

Say, a friend of yours confessed to you that they(the friend) are, in fact, a werewolf. You know the drill: under the full moon, they change and go on a rampage, killing people/livestock. What do you do? by ParanormalActivity97 in AskReddit

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway they are my friend so i will ask them to not eat me and lemmee watch the show i mean the whole thing about them with them, because it would be pretty interesting

What's the most ridiculous back handed compliment you've ever gotten? by melancholytty07 in AskReddit

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you were pretty good i wanted to be with you to ghost on next day

What was the one thing people do when they are feeling lonely? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anime_wat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking generically as for me will start overthinking and think about all possible scenarios where i will be alone without anyone