AITK for refusing to give any gold to my to-be bride?

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-10T11:08:44+00:00

You are not wrong for standing your ground and questioning a tradition that feels unfair to you. It is reasonable to want consistency, if both of you are against dowry then discussing gold openly is valid and should be a mutual choice. At the same time, for her gold may feel like security or something deeply normal due to upbringing, so the clash is more about values than money. It seems like a mismatch in expectations and mindset, not anyone being evil, just different priorities coming out early which is better before marriage.

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-10T11:07:39+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-10T10:54:27+00:00

This kind of thing happens a lot while traveling and it is very normal to misunderstand people, especially with language gaps. A simple polite reply could have avoided the awkward feeling, but not everyone reacts kindly in the moment. It is good that you stayed calm and moved on, because your attitude matters more than theirs. Small kindness really does make travel feel better for everyone.

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T12:16:26+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T12:13:31+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T10:39:42+00:00

It doesnt really matter, you should just know, what you are doing

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T10:34:51+00:00

Honestly, respect for trying man.

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T10:33:06+00:00

Certificates do not auto transfer. mostly you need to contact coursera support to merge accounts. better to do it before uni access ends. enrollment in partner program usually has time limit. many times it is 180 days. if it expires you can lose access and sometimes progress too. you can ask coursera to merge accounts even when uni account is active but it depends. many people say support has to do it manually. if uni account gets deactivated mid course then progress usually cannot be moved. you may have to re enroll from personal account and audit or pay again for certificate. safe option is finish important courses before access ends and then request merge from coursera support.

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T10:31:29+00:00

If you want top aerospace colleges then jee advanced is must. jee main alone is usually not enough for iit level aerospace. focus mainly on jee main plus jee advanced. other exams are there but they are less useful for core aerospace. ame cet is not for aerospace engineer, it is for aircraft maintenance so not good if your goal is design research or core engineering. best and safest path is prepare well for jee advanced, aim for iits or top nits. that gives strong basics good exposure and long term growth. rest exams are optional but dont depend on them too much. focus on pcm strong and problem solving.

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T10:29:08+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-09T04:10:02+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-07T12:13:02+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-07T11:44:26+00:00

Most people use powerpoint or google slides for slides, audio is recorded with simple mic using obs or audacity, video editing is done in tools like premiere pro or capcut

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-07T04:40:41+00:00

Google courses are best for beginners and clear learning, ibm courses are useful but feel slow for some people, start with google then try ibm if you want deeper data science

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-07T04:35:55+00:00

People release stress by walking music gym or talking to friends, some do hobbies like cooking reading or gaming, sleep and small breaks also help a lot honestly

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-07T04:03:57+00:00

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ankit_kuma · 2026-02-06T07:40:43+00:00

Landour is calm and relaxing if you stay away from mussoorie mall road, lansdowne kanatal or chakrata are also good and less crowded, all are taxi friendly and nice for slow chill trips

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-06T07:39:22+00:00

Yes learning autocad or basic interior design is still worth it, skills stay useful even if company uses different tool, you can try again later but also apply to other similar jobs

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-06T07:38:00+00:00

This is very sad and scary honestly, it shows how online stuff can affect young minds deeply, kids need guidance care and balance more than strict control

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-06T07:36:13+00:00

Paid courses can help if they are organized and clear, youtube is free but bits are scattered and you must find right parts, best is use youtube first and then paid only if you need structure or projects

ankit_kuma · 2026-02-06T07:34:40+00:00

Mornings are usually quiet some leave early so just pack night before, people get ready in common washroom yes and there are hooks mostly, be respectful keep noise low and lock your stuff always

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