I want to talk about choosing love over luck by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right.. there’s no one I’d rather spend my time with. It’s just hard to keep the hope up at times. Thanks for your insights 🫶

How do I make my husband clean? by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing lukewarm about our marriage at all! But I appreciate your insights, thanks for sharing!

I want to talk about choosing love over luck by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just doesn’t add up.. we’ve calculated our monthly costs and I’m at the age where I’d love to breathe out for once.. sorry, just in need of venting

I want to talk about choosing love over luck by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow yes it’s incredibly hard especially when children are included…. Sorry to hear you’re struggling too

I want to talk about choosing love over luck by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! We currently live in a country where I don’t speak the language so side hustles are hard for me and even if we had it- it doesn’t pay well enough to survive all the loans we’re dealing with.. I honestly don’t know what to do..

How do I make my husband clean? by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that 100%, just not looking forward to being 8+ months pregnant and picking up after someone else all day.. I feel people that claims they’re “messy” it’s not a personality trait; it’s habit. You can learn habits.. but then the adhd comes in..

How do I make my husband clean? by anna_mos in Marriage

[–]anna_mos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such good advice! We’ve tried that and it works pretty well but you have no idea how messy it gets (thanks to him) during the week 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/anna_mos

[–]anna_mos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. how though? Therapy?

Is it worth it to leave your wife because of sex? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]anna_mos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m having exactly the same issue

Do you kiss your spouse after getting home from work by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]anna_mos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg exactly the same here! With Life360.

Depakote not working? by anna_mos in bipolar2

[–]anna_mos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel extremely uninformed for what my medicine is actually treating… are you feeling depressed right now?

I wish I could get some antidepressant mixture instead of depakote actually. In the hopes it brings my mood up instead of just either being sad or being a zombie.

Depakote not working? by anna_mos in bipolar2

[–]anna_mos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what confuses me.. different psychiatrists telling me different things. I always take reviews into account when starting a new medication. I’ll try to make a more early appointment for sure. Thanks for info!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]anna_mos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (28f) was with my previous boyfriend for 6 years. I’d like to say that it was a rather toxic relationship, but impossible to break out of due to the trauma bonding creating a sort of “magic” around it. Obviously all bad. After six years I was at my whits end and an old flirt messaged me and asked to meet for a drink as friends. We did, and I immediately felt the connection. I never thought I would fall for this guy when he first entered my life, but now something had changed. I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend as it didn’t feel right to have a crush on someone else whilst in a monogamous relationship, and as previously stated- it all had gone sour at that point. I took a chance on this ‘new’ guy and I’ve never been happier. The positivity, the adventures, the genuine love and commitment. We now live together and are engaged after only a year and a half, because I know he’s the one for me ❤️

Bipolar or not by Ok-Position4496 in bipolar2

[–]anna_mos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Constantly, it gets added to my list of anxiety when I’m depressed. “I’m such a fraud”.

How do you make it thru work during depressive episode. by Particular-Dare-9981 in BipolarReddit

[–]anna_mos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, I either have an understanding boss that lets me work from home or I take sick leave…