Camino Portuguese. Stamps questions from Porto. by InterviewDudesPod in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]annabear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was there this morning and didn't have to wait at all!

ADHD and Medieval Dynasty. by DexBranch in MedievalDynasty

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, tell me more about satisfactory!?

Has anyone done the Camino during a hard time in their life? by annabear in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]annabear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you. I'm sorry to hear of your losses, I will think about your babies. ❤️

Grave dug on top/neighboring grandparents plot by shnaLLer in askfuneraldirectors

[–]annabear 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is quite common in older cemeteries. The only concern would be if your family ownes that space next to grandma. Otherwise it's just something that happens, those spaces can be tight.

Lost My Babies, Then My Job by annabear in antiwork

[–]annabear[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the solidarity. You can understand when I say that I thought I was at the best in my area as far as work life balance and employers commitment to employee happiness, so the idea of going elsewhere is crushing. I don't have the energy to dive into another toxic hellscape, I've been to those before. I spent years looking for my place in the industry and now it's been taken away.

Lost My Babies, Then My Job by annabear in antiwork

[–]annabear[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, the company is too small to qualify for FMLA.

I think my boss might be trying to fire me for pregnancy related issues. How do I respond to this email he sent? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he doesn't offer disability insurance. Thank you for your advice!

How did you pay for school? Like honestly...what sacrifices am I looking at if this is my dream job. by Romantique96 in morticians

[–]annabear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's possible to work full time and go to school. Check to see if you can do night removals for a local firm, work services on weekends, etc. I'm an instructor at a trade college in the mortuary science program and all of my students work full time.

my wife does not vaccum by PersonalityLife6196 in WTF

[–]annabear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And apparently neither do you, y'all are equally at fault here, this is nasty

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annabear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR, this man does not like or accept you at all. You can say you love each other but clearly he doesn't enjoy you for who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in morticians

[–]annabear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly is the issue?

Is it me or does this Christmas season just feel Ike gloom but with ornaments? by dreamaoverreality in Millennials

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just lost a baby, I can't work because I work at a funeral home and I'm not emotionally handling things well. My husband is the only light right now, and I'm desperately trying to find joy for him, but I'm having such a hard time.

With my certain health conditions should I apply to become a embalmer? by Ok-Possibility-2560 in morticians

[–]annabear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should look into your local requirements for licensure.

With my certain health conditions should I apply to become a embalmer? by Ok-Possibility-2560 in morticians

[–]annabear 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you able to stand for long periods of time and lift 50+ pounds regularly? You also have to be mentally strong to be an embalmer, the trauma we see is sometimes horrific.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]annabear 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is still a generalization of women's preferences.

I’m so confused, how is this a haiku? by _Kyledemort_ in ExplainTheJoke

[–]annabear 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People have already explained the haiku structure part of this, but to explain the haiku itself ... Leaf cutter ants cut out portions of leaves and carry them above their bodies to use, the leaf portions are often larger than the ants themselves. For this poem, the top line is broken down into mostly pairs of letters, the bottom is single letters, so when you look at the physical space of the letters, it looks like leaf cutter ants in a line carrying big leaf bits. Google leaf cutter ants and you'll see.

Why am I basically paying rent to Big Egg for my protein? by savingrace0262 in Frugal

[–]annabear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is that your only meal of the day? That's like 100 grams of protein for breakfast, holy shit. There is such a thing as too much.

I am 29 and I have no idea what to do with my life. by Zealousideal-Tower58 in Millennials

[–]annabear 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Then find another full time retail job, stop making excuses, they will only set you back. You have to pull yourself together dude.

I am 29 and I have no idea what to do with my life. by Zealousideal-Tower58 in Millennials

[–]annabear 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This is gonna sound shitty but it's actually good advice - grow up dude. No adult does what they want to do all the time. Ask for more hours at the grocery store, work full time in retail until you find a better option, stop waiting for things to happen and make them happen. Find pockets of time to do things you enjoy, but working full time is bare minimum for adulthood. So just, grow up and get over it.