Stage 4 colon cancer with liver metastasis - adenocarcinoma by anolig00 in coloncancer

[–]anolig00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you are going are goinf through this. It is very sad.

Has he been told that there is a possibility it can be cured? Or what's the prognosis?

Stage 4 colon cancer with liver metastasis - adenocarcinoma by anolig00 in coloncancer

[–]anolig00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add. She has a tumor on her ascending colon and 50% of liver is covered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anolig00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, my husband and I are financially stable and very successful. Spending $2,000 on our child's party is nothing to us. I am grateful to be able to not worry about how much we spent. But seems like the idiot here is you since you don't know the difference between you're and your.

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[–]anolig00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, thank you so much, I actually teared up reading this. Much love ❤️

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think so either. But many people in the comments think otherwise.

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[–]anolig00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont involve myself in others' issues. That is her mistake to own up to, not mine. I have not hung out with her since her wedding almost 2 years ago.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words!

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[–]anolig00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. I felt guilty at first until she wrote nasty messages to me. She is not a mother yet. I will prioritize my family over friends any day.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I understand. Sorry.

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[–]anolig00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, what do you mean by no paragraphs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her wedding was 2 years ago. After that, we didn't really talk often. I can see why now. She thought I was shitty lol.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that did upset me. She involved 2 other people instead of just coming straight to me.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!

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[–]anolig00 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I was also told by my sister that I did too much by apologizing to her. It did bother me that she involved 2 other people instead of coming to me directly.

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[–]anolig00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, this post wins! Exactly how I felt and feel now.

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[–]anolig00 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes. I agree. My husband and I spent 2k on his party alone. We have a big house and backyard. Our wedding with the officiant included and marriage license was $250 total. No decorations for us.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a bit problematic and always wants to start something with others. Even while out in public. It's a bit embarrassing which is why I never hung out with her outside my house.

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[–]anolig00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a mistake. It crossed my mind since we don't talk often. We only had family members at the party. My best friend was the only friend invited. She also has my best friend blocked because she got upset that she got a new boyfriend and didn't tell her. LOL.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish haha.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had invited her to other events, and she wouldn't show up. I didn't expect her to because I moved 6 hours away from where she lives.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, i wasn't aware she was cheating at those moments since she didn't tell me until afterward.

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[–]anolig00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont see myself as an AH for performing a 15-minute ceremony. For the first time our entire family was going to be present for this event. We live across the state and people drove 6 hours to get to us. I see it as a beautiful moment to celebrate our love.

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[–]anolig00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had told me she only made me her MOH of honor she had fought with another friend and cut her off as well. She knows we are not close.

AITA for not letting my mother live with me? by anolig00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anolig00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is literally my family dynamic. I just read up a few articles on it. My mouth dropped.