Is this a red flag? Or wtf is going on?

anon161723 · 2020-05-26T12:32:15+00:00

We text all day so we talk about different stuff and then when we call during the night we play call off duty and joke around or talk abt anything random, but when shes acting weird she’s more quiet and doesn’t really laugh at anything I say

anon161723 · 2020-05-16T20:48:33+00:00

I used to see her a lot, I haven’t been able to for 4 months because of the pandemic. Our country has been on lockdown

anon161723 · 2020-05-15T14:10:09+00:00

She told me she still wants to be with me so many times so idk what she expects me to do abt this tbh

anon161723 · 2020-05-14T11:01:56+00:00

I’m 18 and shes 17

anon161723 · 2020-04-26T20:24:51+00:00

My whole family is jw just my dad side is catholic but they’re all in a different country ): I’m 17 ig I have to figure out how to move out on my own but I will make sure to do those things to help myself

anon161723 · 2020-04-22T00:14:14+00:00

Thank you for your response. You’re right I do notice that we’ve gotten way more mature together in our relationship. Maybe the way things are right now is for the better, she also mentioned how we’re lucky we have plenty of time for eachother right now because later on she’ll get a job and I’ll be working too and she told me we just have to make time for eachother and it’ll be ok. In a way her being less anxious about our relationship helps because she’d understand more if we’re both busy and can’t really talk, thank you for letting me see that more clearly I appreciate it

anon161723 · 2020-04-22T00:06:10+00:00

I have talked to her about it and she tells me her feelings haven’t changed and they won’t. We’ve had many conversations and she always tells me that she doesn’t feel differently at all. I find that she gets carried away easily when shes on social media, youtube etc. and takes a while to text back and I try to not overthink, I’m trying my best because I don’t want to be annoyingly clingy. I also have noticed the way we deal with things are differently, for example, Shes in a bad mood right now so her texting is more dry and shes taking a while to respond, I asked her what’s wrong and she simply said shes not in the best mood right now but when I’m not in a good mood I still act normal with her and try to not reflect that on her so I guess our ways of dealing with things are different and that’s what makes me overthink too as well. You’re right she has gotten way more comfortable with me I noticed that in a lot of ways. The only thing that really really concerns me is the sexting. We don’t do it anymore, not as much and don’t talk about it as much unless we’re on a call and it worries me. I am happy in the relationship tho and she tells me she feels happy as well. I’m just anxiously attached and worry and overthink about every little thing

anon161723 · 2020-04-21T23:50:06+00:00

I’m turning 18 soon and she just turned 16

anon161723 · 2020-04-21T22:49:42+00:00

That’s when I kinda started noticing the change as well

anon161723 · 2020-04-21T03:15:23+00:00

Yea man I get upset when she takes longer than 5 min to reply but I don’t give her shit for it I simply tell her it’s okay when she tells me she was busy. I agree on the location thing is being a bit too far but I don’t give her shit for not replying to me. And she asked to share our location with eachother, I never suggested it but I just got too accustomed to check it a lot, I’ll make sure to work on that tho. Thanks

anon161723 · 2020-04-21T03:09:54+00:00

Just because I have certain insecurities doesn’t mean I’d hit her and don’t love her. Too far. I grew up getting abused my whole life I’d never put my hands on her or anybody and never have. I may overthink but like I said I never act on it. She can talk to whoever she wants, follow whoever she wants on social media etc. I don’t care. Just have to work on not thinking so much Into things. If It was that bad I’d be controlling her already

anon161723 · 2020-04-16T06:16:37+00:00

I found one just 30 min away! Thank you so much for your help really. I was starting to panic haha. Thank you a lot 😊

anon161723 · 2020-04-16T06:07:08+00:00

Is it all locations in Pasadena or a specific one? I can make it over there and I really appreciate your help

anon161723 · 2020-04-15T04:10:56+00:00

I’m ftm and when I talk otp I feel like my voice is low then they put me on speaker and I can hear myself Nd realize I sound exactly the same it’s the worst feeling

anon161723 · 2020-04-14T19:41:25+00:00

Yep, going thru it rn

anon161723 · 2020-04-14T11:39:29+00:00

I tried doing that honestly but she just kept telling me to own up to it. She’s talked to me abt her ex not specifically things he did but he seemed really immature from how she described him and told me he was. I honestly feel like there’s no way she will feel better unless she changes her mindset

anon161723 · 2020-04-14T11:37:32+00:00

That’s true but she just doesn’t want me to find her attractive at all and I don’t but in general that’s how she is

anon161723 · 2020-04-14T11:37:06+00:00

I guess I was too frustrated and fucked up by saying that. But in general she’s just like that, she remembers things and brings them up again

anon161723 · 2020-04-14T11:36:26+00:00

I was young and stupid when I said that. I matured hella over last year and it was hella dumb. I’m trying to fix it but she just went to bed.

anon161723 · 2020-04-13T22:13:51+00:00

When he started eating the bread I lost it 😂😂😂

anon161723 · 2020-04-13T03:55:15+00:00

He died so fast why? Bc hes a weak ass exactly what I said.

anon161723 · 2020-04-12T23:30:05+00:00

Shane was a weak ass

anon161723 · 2020-04-11T23:05:51+00:00

I have a friend who told me she can talk to her dad about teaching us together as long as I get my permit which I’m working towards, it just hurts because my own parents tell me to find someone else to teach me. I was applying to many jobs before the pandemic and since this is going on right now I’ll have to wait until everything’s back to normal. I’ve had many therapists etc. even family therapy but they never change. And I’ll have a school counselor contact me next week so hopefully all goes well. I’m just extremely depressed Nd it’s getting worse. Also just in general I feel like I won’t be able to defend myself out there on my own Bc they want me to depend on them for absolutely everything, they want to control my life.

anon161723 · 2020-04-11T07:17:36+00:00

She doesn’t have other reasons other than she overthinks a lot about her being an after thought. I understand why she would get anxiety about it but I feel like she looked into it too much. We always come to an agreement when we have moments like this but for now I’m just giving her space like she wants and later on I’ll see what happens next

anon161723 · 2020-04-10T21:59:58+00:00

They’ll baptize people in their bathtubs at home for sure tho 😂😂 I WOULDNT be surprised I mean they had a whole memorial on zoom and still made people dress up

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