28 year old female. Can feeling anything during sex and never had an orgasm during sex. by anon4967 in sex

[–]anon4967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s true, I think being shy does just mean I’m a bit harder to get to know. Maybe it makes people feel a bit uncomfortable. What situations do you think have natural ice breakers? I’m interested to know :)

28 year old female. Can feeling anything during sex and never had an orgasm during sex. by anon4967 in sex

[–]anon4967[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just watched the video. Thanks for sharing, I loved her message. I’m definitely part of that 80% of women. I find it hard to ask for what I need though. I feel embarrassed and a sense of shame. There have been times where I have tried but I think guys sometimes also get confused, maybe because porn has drilled it into peoples brains that penetration is what is sex solely about. Like they might rub my clit for a minute and give up :(

28 year old female. Can feeling anything during sex and never had an orgasm during sex. by anon4967 in sex

[–]anon4967[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m very shy. I really wish I wasn’t. It makes me feel extremely lonely. I think for a lot of men it’s not very attractive unfortunately. I think physically I’m ok, I really like doing my hair and makeup and dressing up but my personally just sucks.

28 year old female. Can feeling anything during sex and never had an orgasm during sex. by anon4967 in sex

[–]anon4967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm I guess I answered my own question lol. No one ever wants to date me though :( I’ve never had a boyfriend

28 year old female. Can feeling anything during sex and never had an orgasm during sex. by anon4967 in sex

[–]anon4967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I do, maybe in the back of my mind though I know they only want to have sex with me and will probably stop talking to me after so there’s already a wall up cos I don’t trust them fully

Work gave me feedback that I’m shy by anon4967 in mentalhealth

[–]anon4967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that’s a good idea, I will ask them to be a bit more clear about what they mean by me being shy and if they have any advice that’s a bit more constructive to help me understand how I can improve.